I really don't understand this at all!?

Question

Ok here's the thing. How come white women inject there lips, butts, and breast with this...stuff, and then tan there skin a darker color, and then denine and say they don't want to be black.

ANd why do black women want to be white? Why do people want to be like someone their not? Is it for popularity, race? What is it?

Sorry if this sounds rude.

Answer 1

Because we don't like who we are, we envy others... Only God can save us from this mess.

Answer 2

That's a good question. You're right that people often want to be something they're not. I don't know that they are consciously trying to change race, or even be like another race. I think people are not secure that they can be loved so they try to change their perceived flaws. Or they just don't love themselves the way they are.

This happens with all kinds of physical attributes. Short people want to be taller, poorer people want to appear richer, older want to look younger. Technology has been finding more ways to create these illusions so those that aren't happy with themselves try them.

But why black into white and white into black? Could be that white women see black women as sexier and vice versa. Or black women think whites have more status and whites think blacks have more credibility. It could be any of those things. Personally I think all women are sexy.

Answer 3

No white women don't inject their lips, butts, and breasts. Only 4 psycho porn stars and 5 celebrities do this in addition to .01% of the general population in addition to Lil' Kim lol. 90% of black women straighten their hair with a variety of chemicals (every week) or wear weaves or wigs with hair imitating the hair texture of white women (just like the chick in your avatar)---NOW THAT'S PSYCHOSIS!! Also the most beautiful black women (Halle Berry, Alicia Keys, and most of the women in music videos such as Christina Milian, Ciarra, Rhianna, and the list goes on and on) are either half-white (or latino or asian) or very light skinned from having tons of racial admixture (although one parent is not directly white). The celebrities also apply pancake beige makeup to look lighter (carefully stenciled to approximate Caucasian facial features)--check Beyonce, and use bleach creams, and careful lightning techniques to look lighter (all the black people in promotional photographs always look wayyyy lighter in picture/T.V. than in real life). Oprah looks 5 times lighter on T.V.

Answer 4

The old phrase "the grass is greener on the other side" is so true. I am always amazed why people are so incredibly unhappy with who they are and what they look like. So they try something different. It is so unnatural and silly.

Answer 5

The grass is always greener on the other side.
I want a woman that is happy with herself, and that is my lady. Proud to be who she is.

Answer 6

I dunno. I was in a bar in Greece about 20 years ago talking to a Black G.I. He said that all his White friends were on the beach trying to get Black & all his Black friends were in the bar trying to get White!

Answer 7

Everyone thinks the grass is greener somewhere else.

Answer 8

I believe that people in general our insecure with them selves, so you see some one you admire and shape your attitude and appearance toward that person you admire.

Answer 9

why don't you speak for your self! i don't want to be anything other me!