He has been separated for over 6 months working on divorce due to his wife being unfaithful. Great man with great morals.
2007-02-06 04:48:51 · 21 answers · asked by TB 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
yes wait until his divorce is final or else you might be considered somewhat of a homewrecker and you also might get hurt cause he might go back to his wife and never get divorced , good luck.
2007-02-06 04:52:33 · answer #1 · answered by Kate T. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's wrong but you have to be careful because chances are you'll get hurt. He's dealing with the emotions of the divorce still and dating you is good right now but will he feel the same way once he's over it? Is this just a rebound relationship for him? And does he even want a serious relationship right now just getting out of one? I'm not saying that you will get hurt but you have to protect your emotions until you find out where he's coming from.
2007-02-06 04:57:35 · answer #2 · answered by sassy6 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well he is still married, so I would say yes it is wrong, and just think about it, how can he really concentrate on you and be able to give his all in the relationship when he has to concentrate on a divorce with his wife, which is the hardest thing to deal with. So so much is involved and you can't juggle two serious situations like this at once.
2007-02-06 05:04:31 · answer #3 · answered by badma'amajama 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just b/c he's getting a divorce he still love the woman those feelings don't go away just b/c you want them to so I would give the man some time alone or you just might be the rebound and then you'll end up with hurt feelings.
2007-02-06 05:08:59 · answer #4 · answered by Forever_Young 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It isn't wrong --- the marriage is over.... but the first person he dates is generally the "bridge" out of the marriage, and rarely is the one the guy ends up with.... Knowing that, you may wish to not put too much time and energy into this..... Never be the bridge, hon, if you are hoping for a relationship.
2007-02-06 05:12:37 · answer #5 · answered by April 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
But he's still technically married, and is dating someone? Then he's cheating on his wife. I don't care if she cheated on him, if he's still married, he's still married. PERIOD. 2 wrongs do not make a right. Wait until he gets his life straightened out, wait until his divorce is final, and he's closed that chapter of his life. Until that divorce is final, there's always a chance he'll go back to his wife, and then where does that leave you? Wait until he's free, that's the best thing you can do for yourself.
2007-02-06 04:53:26 · answer #6 · answered by basketcase88 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably wouldn't be a good idea to get too serious too soon. He needs time to heal and jumping right back into another relationship doesn't sound like such a good idea.
Also, if he's such a great guy, he may go back to his wife.
2007-02-06 08:37:12 · answer #7 · answered by Sally 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's only wrong if it feels wrong to you. I would be careful dating anyone who was recently separated, because of the high likelyhood of being a "rebound" relationship. But it is completely up to you; just be realistic, and keep your eyes open.
2007-02-06 04:55:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
[Experienced Divorced Man] It won't last. it'll be fun, for a while But we Men, change once we get through it. If you want something for now? Enjoy yourself. But don't start picking out the Drapes!
2007-02-06 04:56:17 · answer #9 · answered by Goggles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does he have toddlers? if so, he's doing the the superb option ingredient. If no longer, i might question why he feels the might desire to "bypass to" her. it relatively is totally conceivable to have a civil divorce with no need mutually over espresso to talk.
2016-10-01 12:43:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋