Since june 06 when i thought i could be pregnant and you all said test again sounds like you are to july when ive lost the baby to ectopic all i have done since is be deprresed and search on here for answeres to my fears and depression.Heres a BIG thanks to everyone who since then has answered my questions politly and gave me hope for the future its been so nice knowing its not just me.My husband has been away with the army so theres no chance i can get pregnant again yet this hasent helped but its only 3 months untill hes back and ive planted a memorial tree for my ectopic angel ive let my angel go now and am looking to the future i cant wait untill may when anytime after we could get the news were longing for im pregnant again.If i hadnt of had you lot to share my thoughts with id have drove myself into a grave so thankyou.
2007-02-06 04:21:29 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
bless... and well done you!!.. i lost a baby at 12 weeks and that was 12 years ago.. i still remember and sent a loving thought out to my little angel too... moms never forget, we grow stronger .. thats what makes us moms xxx
2007-02-06 04:40:34 · answer #1 · answered by tikketiboo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh sweetie, just reading that made me cry, i know how difficult it mustbe with your hubby away in the army my dad has just recently got back from afganstain for 6 months and seeing my mum the way she was, was heart renching.
I know how difficult it must be for you to accept what has happend in the past and to move on, my long for a baby is just taking over my life and if i had found out i was pregnant but i could not have that baby i would feel my life was not worth living.
You give women in the same boat the courage to go on.
You obviosly are so much stronger than you thnk you are, i tell you that as soon as your hubby comes baby sex will not be just a baby making chore it will be so much more and i have that feeling in heart that it would be the time that you will have that baby you are so longing for.
I replied to one of your questions yesterday, and said that you should start taking prenatal vitamines etc to get your body prepared this may even take your mind of certain things for a while.
Go swimming or something, take nice relaxing baths with candels, eat the right things and just generally make yourself ready.
If you want to talk email me
blondeonamsion3825@hotmail.co.uk
2007-02-06 06:40:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know what just relax. I know easier said then done. At least you have a good man. The first thing you need to do is tell your boyfriend. If you were on the pill and there was more protection it was an accident, sorry, not planned. Not like you were trying to get pregnant. Tell him and then as a team decide what to do. Maybe don't even tell the family just let them figure it out when you start to show. Right now the two of you need to decide whats best for you and your family (you him and baby's). If you have your stuff together and you guys are being responsible caring for your baby, paying bills paying for baby and working there isn't much they can say. Do the two of you live by yourself? If not is that an option? Sorry getting side tracked. Talk to him first tahn decide as a team
2016-05-23 23:48:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am really moved by your story and would say that this is one of the great things about the WWW - knowing that people in the same boat are out there at a moment's reach when you have nobody else to talk to or who can relate to you. I've only just discovered Yahoo answers and have been moved by the "sisterhood" that obviously exists between all the girlies TTC - FABULOUS OR WHAT!! Hopefully I'll have good news to report in the near future but so far I've had some really helpful and kind answers which is what it's all about. You just wait till hubby walks in that door - you will burst and probably your ovaries will aswell with the excitement and a little egg will pop out ready to ripen!!! xx
2007-02-06 10:27:09 · answer #4 · answered by heidimaghellian 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this made me cry. i had a miscarriage 2 years ago and i nearly took a nervous breakdown. my husband didn't want to talk about it, so i felt so alone. i felt like my heart had been ripped out. i couldn't stop thinkin that my baby had been flushed down a toilet. i made a poem for my baby because i felt that would help me cope better. since then i have been blessed with a beautiful baby boy, i feel so lucky. but nothing will ever take away from the one i lost. if anything its harder. i think all the time what my baby would be doing now, saying mama and walking. time is a great healer and you will be a wonderful mother some day. contact me if you ever want to chat. god bless x
2007-02-06 23:48:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have walked in your shoes.
The best advice I can give you is....Forgive yourself, release the pain and plan for a future. I started taking herbal feminune fertility suppliments. I gave some Male ones to my husband and we both ate very "Clean and healthy" foods. WE focused on our health and believed in our heart that "baby" would come to us.
A wise old woman (14 kids) told me to have sex like your lovers and have fun like your dating. So we (he Italian & me Irish) did just that and had dates with dancing and wine. We put the baby (ovulation) kit away for three months and just partied and worked out on our bodies. And YES it worked.
I was at an event after work, with a friend (former playboy playmate) and the men past her to get to me. What?! I'm a little round readheaded bad attitude irish chick, she is a 6 foot blonde fake boobed knockout. But the men lined up to dance with me- one guy said your are just glowing. I freaked out. I did a test and I was glowing!
Have faith. Be patient. Your young I can tell. I am 42 now.
You have time- enjoy your family as it is and love yourself.
Your child will come. Take this time to heal.
2007-02-06 04:49:48 · answer #6 · answered by Denise W 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just know that you're not alone. This has happened to many other women. Although it feels like the end of the world, it's not. I'm sure it's really hard on you without your husband right there with you though. Hopefully you'll get pregnant when you're husband gets back home.
Good luck!
2007-02-06 04:32:46 · answer #7 · answered by Julie F 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so glad that you are feeling stronger and better about things. Your baby will always be part of you and when the right time comes for you to have another baby then he or she will have there own guardian angel watching over them and you. good luck for the future.
2007-02-07 02:01:13 · answer #8 · answered by thedaddy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just know that God is here for you whenever and for whatever. All you have to do is have faith. I will be praying for you and your husband's safety. God bless you and send you the children you long for. Keep driving on and remember there are many of us who or were in your same place and we made it. YOU WILL TOO!
2007-02-06 07:38:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
anytime hun, anytime!
2007-02-06 04:25:00 · answer #10 · answered by im*horny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋