My husband told me things that broke my heart about a week ago. And it's so hard to trust him. He always says he's going to change....and then something happens.....some girl changes his mind. I don't think he's still flat out cheating...I don't know how to trust him again. He's been keeping the truth from me for 2 1/2 years...and now he wants to tell the truth? I don't know what to believe anymore. Please help deside if it's worth sticking around for...(like, if he's really changed) or should I just take a hike?
2007-02-06 03:55:24 · 19 answers · asked by sillyrabbit69 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
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2007-02-06 03:57:34 · answer #1 · answered by troble # one? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
marriage is a promise. you promised to stay. yes, he also promised not to cheat on you - but you can only control your side of the problem. if there's kids, DEF stay. if not, then I'd still recomend you stay and try to work it out. tell him flat out that you're considering leaving him if he doesn't stop cheating. but don't yell or antyhing, just calmly tell him. maybe do something for a day or two, just to show him your serious, but when you come back or something, don't let it seem like you're running back to him. just let him now your serious, but you want to try and make this work, you want to try and keep your marriage. good luck girlie, I really hope things work out for you.
another thing that might help here - pray. Jesus is always listening, He never has and never will cheat on you. He loves you with an unconditional love.
2007-02-06 04:02:15 · answer #2 · answered by :) 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's having an emotional affair? Well, it is hard to regain that trust back as you will always be wondering if he is telling you the truth. You are probably asking yourself, what else is he keeping from you, right? I would try counseling before you decide to move on. If he is worth it, exhaust all opportunties before you decide to move forward with a divorce.
2007-02-06 04:06:34 · answer #3 · answered by St.Jeb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave his ***...
Once a cheater always a cheater... warn out statement but so true.
Once trust is broken it can never be gained back. And you may be able to forgive him but you'll never forget it.
Take a while enjoy the single life. You will meet a man someday that is mature enough to handle a monogamous and respectful relationship.
2007-02-06 04:01:01 · answer #4 · answered by suckmykiss232 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put on your hiking boots girl....I think I dated this guy...!!! He has never had the respect for you to be honest and he sure isn't going to start now...words are cheap so it doesn't matter what he says...(plus he is aproven liar)...dump him before he takes every once of self esteem away from you...to the curb!!!!!
2007-02-06 04:01:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust is a major part of any relationship. The real question is is it more painful to be with him or to be on your own. You can always do bad by yourself.
2007-02-06 04:06:05 · answer #6 · answered by knyagruv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in life we go through ups and downs..in a job we are not happy so we make a decision to go or stay...in a relationship we also make the same decision..bascially what i am trying to say is that..WE know when its time to go..time to make a change...your husband..has kept this from you for so long..how can you trust him again..damn him..but like i said we feel it in our body and soul when its time to go..good luck..and go with you heart
2007-02-06 04:08:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this is a serious question, why would you pose it such a bunch of idiots?
Would you really take the advice of complete strangers who can't spell adn refuse to use spellcheckc (myself included)?
2007-02-06 03:59:30 · answer #8 · answered by Work is for Busters 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why should you take a hike? Kick his butt to the curb!
If he's the liar, cheater, then it's his place to be out on the sidewalk, not yours!
2007-02-06 03:58:55 · answer #9 · answered by peggin_beast 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nobody can tell you what to do. You just have to trust your feelings.
2007-02-06 03:58:47 · answer #10 · answered by Jaremy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hun, i would leave cuz your only divin into a pool of misery so just leave even tho its the hardest thing to do!! but ya gotta do what ya gotta do.
2007-02-06 03:59:07 · answer #11 · answered by tls_2007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋