My son is 15 & had a g/f 17,well they would have been together for 1 year on 2/15/07,day after Valentines!Anyway,she broke up with him a couple of days ago and he is devistated!!So heartbroken.His whole life has changed now.I feel so very bad for him!I know it will take time,but eventullay the pain will ease & he will be alright,but how do I say that & make him understand?It just hurts me so much to see him in so much pain!!!
2007-02-06 03:42:54 · 8 answers · asked by swt-bby-gl-69 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Just be supportive to him and listen to him. Make sure he keeps busy and occupied, as it will take his mind off of it. Get him involved in activities as much as you can, don't let him sit aorund and mope, he will eventually be fine. The more he sits around and mopes the more you have to worry about, if he expresses suicide or seems overly depressed get him to a counselor immediately. A boy at 15 going through this, isn't thinking about the future.
2007-02-06 04:52:02 · answer #1 · answered by St.Jeb 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry but it's life. When someone gets their heartbroken it happens and you have to learn from it and move on. The only thing you can do is be there for him and comfort him if he wants to talk about it. In time he'll get over her and find someone new. It's like an old saying goes "It's better to have loved and lost then to not have loved at all."
2007-02-06 12:03:38 · answer #2 · answered by Irish Girl 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all you tell him that their are a lot more girls out their even better then you say that the more you think about her the more you will continue to mope around and be sad. Im not saying forget about her im just saying try to let her go just enough to go on with life and be free and have fun.
2007-02-06 11:49:06 · answer #3 · answered by totalltobesosexylovemeorhatemeok 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, use some of your pieces to mend it and it might help. But its hard coz they might not fit. Tell him the reality about relationship. Let him know that things come to an end and he has to accept that.
Let him know that its not the end of his love life, they were not meant to be. Let him know that he has a long way to go and wil meet more nice and gd people in life.
2007-02-06 12:29:52 · answer #4 · answered by Babykay 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I remember my mom trying to ease my pain in a similar situation. Fact is, nothing she said to me helped - NOTHING. Maybe if you came up with a project at home that would keep him busy. Just try not to be obvious.
Good Luck
2007-02-06 11:49:23 · answer #5 · answered by snvffy 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give him a hug, let him know that you will be there for him and that he will get over this too, that someday he will look back and maybe even laugh about it. Love hurts sometimes, but that he will get over it in time. Hope he feels better soon...
2007-02-06 12:40:27 · answer #6 · answered by onecrazypeach 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He has to go through this by himself, I'm afraid. We all get our hearts broken, and that first one is the absolute worst. I'm sorry you have to watch him suffer, but it has to be his experience. I think you should let him alone to his grief. Just monitor his behavior to make sure that it's the normal grieving process. So sorry.
2007-02-06 11:48:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him there is more fish in the sea.and if it was love she wouldn't of have hurt him
2007-02-06 11:52:02 · answer #8 · answered by Makayla 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋