Let's face it everytime we ask someone a question when we have a problem in a marriage or a relationship, someone usually says "we've had hard times" but we are still together... yatta yatta So tell me, what was your hard time, how did you get through it? What happened?
2007-02-06 03:31:27 · 7 answers · asked by livlovelaugh 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I have had alot of hard times. My hard times did not stop till about 5 years ago. I had epilepsy from the day I was born till about 6 years ago when I had brain surgery to cure it. Then I was and only child and grandchild so at a young age I had to take care of my grandparents and also my dad who was diagnosed with cancer when I was 15 and died when I was 21. So I had alot of ropes to jump through as a kid to get where I am now. I am now in my 30's and left my home state about a year ago to start living my life after the last person wich was my grandmother passed away. I cant really tell you how I got through all of that but I just did and like I said I just moved on by moving to a different state leaving the northwest where I was raised and moved to the south to Texas. Moving was the only thing I could do to start over and leave all the hard times behind. What ever you are going through you will beable to do it.
2007-02-06 03:45:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well my husband is an addict, and he has now made his brain stupid because of it he lost a great paying job of 9 yrs because of it. We lost our house and I'm now 28 and back in my parents home with my 2 kids. There is no decent paying jobs. I would leave except for the fact my husband would make good on his threat to run off with my kids. I have met and fell in love with his best friend, while I have not cheated I really want to. I know I am a better person than a cheater. My kids are embarassed, and hate by their father. Need I go on? Lots of problems with no solution!?! I am a good person with a good heart and didn't ask for any of this hell I am forced to endure.
2007-02-06 11:49:45 · answer #2 · answered by Destiny 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My hard time started a couple months ago when my close friends mom came to where I worked and showed me emails where my husband had been emailing my male friend for sex. this had been going on for several months and my friend didn't want to hurt me. I had feelings that my husband was gay but I chose to overlook them. I had to choose between believing whether he was gay or not and that was the toughest decision i have ever had to make. so i chose to believe my husband and to constantly try to block that it ever happened. But in the back of my mind i will always wonder if he is gay or not.
2007-02-06 13:48:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, soon after our daughter was born, he was laid off. having no income and him searching for a job, and me being home all day with a new baby, and the babty waking up at all hours of the night, and she was lactose intolerant< took my doctors a few tries with that lol> it was a lot of stress! when people are stressed to that point it is really hard not to take it out of the person who is around you the most! thank God he found the job that was perfect for him, and we did a lot of talking about how each one felt, and spending time with our daughter is what got us thru it!
2007-02-06 11:43:32 · answer #4 · answered by Carrie H 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Christmas 2006- me alone working, rent, car pymt, step- child's present to buy, credit pymt, school loan pymt, etc. Same food for Christmas, and two days after.
May 2006- June 2006- found out i was pregnant, my fiance gambled out his 2 mths salary, had to find a place to live. Went back to my mother's, fell out with her 3 days after, had to live in a shelter for women.
2007-02-06 11:44:07 · answer #5 · answered by stacy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there's always hard time for any marriage couple. Sometimes with or without kids the problems is still there, no matter how happy the couple is.
2007-02-06 11:53:53 · answer #6 · answered by ironlady42 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he cheatd on me and I forgave him but i didnt trust him anymore.... And it took awhile to get over my new found fear of it happening again... It was our (hard time) in the relationship bc i was always up his *** wondering where he was and what he was doing! It happenes 3 more times b4 i stoped being dumb and left him!!!
2007-02-06 11:43:14 · answer #7 · answered by Adrianna N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋