2007-02-06 03:01:59 · 20 answers · asked by Joe 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I don't know.
Years ago, I would have said no. Its still not something I think I'd do. But there are way more couples out there then you may think where one partner _refuses_ to have any sexual contact with their partner for _years_. Its all well and good to say 'oh just get a divorce then', but I don't know that I could call someone who stays married so they can be with their children, while having a discrete affair on the side in this situating 'definitely wrong'. Obviously, if one partner was incapable of having sex do to a physical ailment, I'd take a different view, though even there, you can do _some_ things together. Hell, if I was a quadrapalegic, I'd be begging my wife to at least masturbate in front of me or _something_. Why is it called 'cheating'? Because you are cheating your spouse out of something you promised to them. If they have rejected that something - not in the short term, but in the long term ... I don't know. There's no perfect answer in that situation, and I would be hesitant to critisize someone else for making a different decision from me.
2007-02-06 05:03:06 · answer #1 · answered by kheserthorpe 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
NO SIR!!!! You should not commit adultery! Why be in a marriage when you want to cheat? The best way to end it is a divorce.... That way you both can go your seperate ways without being totally wrecked by it. It a sin to cheat. Vows should never be broken.
2007-02-06 12:22:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Never. Does taking a vow mean anything to you? People do not deserve the hurt and pain that cheating causes.
2007-02-06 11:40:23 · answer #3 · answered by Jess_DH13 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No it is never ok. I have been cheated on and there is NEVER a reason to, all it will do is destroy lives. If you are not happy get out of it!
2007-02-06 11:12:58 · answer #4 · answered by Takita F 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
UM........Let me think about this one for a min. NOPE, why in the world would you ask such a stupied question as that??????? Why get married if our going to mess around. Thats whats wrong w/people these days nobody takes marriage serriously. So to anwser your stupied question NO.
2007-02-06 16:28:35 · answer #5 · answered by D lux 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
NO it is NEVER ok to do so..... Why are you even asking this. Are you looking for a reason or excuse to cheat and be unfaithful?
2007-02-06 11:13:32 · answer #6 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no, it is never ok to cheat. if you are not happy in the marriage, then get out of it. but never, ever cheat. that lowers your standards and labels you as untrustworthy.
2007-02-06 11:12:04 · answer #7 · answered by linda k 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No never even thought about it. I love my husband dearly and have for 36 years.
2007-02-06 11:05:34 · answer #8 · answered by kitkat 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes. Anytime is good. You may wish to read my soon to be published: 'Marriage Is For Morons - A Practical Guide For Horny Retards'. Can I put you down for an advanced copy?
2007-02-06 11:05:38 · answer #9 · answered by Oliver T 4 · 1⤊ 4⤋
When they are aware of it and don't mind. It's clld swinging. Otherwise, it's not ok.
2007-02-06 11:06:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋