My girl and I both have crazy jobs, she is the director of our towns mental health department,and I am a store manager for a retail store.In addition we both are in grad school.My problem is that we don't get to spend alot of time together.I don't want 24/7 either because that would also get on my nerves.I just would like to have more time or I asking to much.She said that she Love and want a fully committed relationship.I just more than an hour here and a hour there.
2007-02-06 02:54:16 · 5 answers · asked by mg4for2 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It sounds like it will be necessary to schedule time to be together. I know it sounds clinical, but if you both have schedules that don't jive with each other, it may be the only way.
Make sure that the time you spend together is quality time. Do fun, relaxing things and try not to talk about work during this time. Make it about the two of you.
2007-02-06 02:58:52 · answer #1 · answered by katydid 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Commitment is relative and can be shwn in many ther ways,, and of course yu can link up wit her when you are free,, create time off and get her and have fun together you know,, the same case applies to her,, two way traffic,, not you always
2007-02-06 11:06:12 · answer #2 · answered by dianadaina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you are not asking too much at all... You do need more time together. How about getting together on your days off... Meet her for lunch or have her meet you. Come up with ideas so spend more time together.
2007-02-06 11:09:51 · answer #3 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest. Do you really want to spend more time with her, or are you just a horny so and so? There's a big difference you know. I think you just want more *** time. Men don't really want to spend quality time with a women, they just want to *** more.....isn't that the real deal?
2007-02-06 11:07:59 · answer #4 · answered by Nobody Special 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Set up a weekly date night.
2007-02-06 10:58:36 · answer #5 · answered by kitkat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋