See the thing is I don't know how to tell my parents....How long do i wait to tell them...right now I'm about 4 weeks.....do i need more time or should i tell my parents right now???Help!!!
2007-02-06 02:15:52 · 10 answers · asked by Dee 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
well how old are you? if you still very young then yes this might be a shock for them. Just tell them sit with them and get it over with,
Good luck
2007-02-06 02:20:29 · answer #1 · answered by bcb 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
the pregnancy will show at 3-4 months so you think you can keep the secret that long? You have a lot of options, as a future mother, no one will force you to accept the baby, but if you want to be his/her mother then you must tell your parents right away, because will make your point clear! No mather their reaction you must tell them and more importantly you must go to a doctor to be sure!! You are not the first and you will not be the last person who has this problem. I am a single mother so i know very well!! If they love you the will understand, remember, is your life, not there's, so live it like you want!!! and now if you are really pregnant, every move and action you take will have an influence on the baby!!
2007-02-06 10:29:35 · answer #2 · answered by anka M 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The best way is to just face them and get it out in the open, otherwise it will eat you up with major stress. They will like it much better if you are honest right now, rather than them finding out when you begin to show. And, please, please, don't even consider abortion, although after 4 weeks, that option might be passed. Go and do it now. You will feel better after they get over the initial reaction. I will pray for you.Get your parents to go to a Crisis Pregnancy Center with you. They are very good at telling all of you the things that help.
2007-02-06 10:25:57 · answer #3 · answered by The Count 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should probably find out for sure before you tell anybody. You may just have scared yourself so bad that your body skipped a period. It happens sometimes when you're stressed out. Also, if you're a teenager (and I'm guessing you are), it sometimes takes years for your periods to get regular, so there might be a lot of other reasons besides pregnancy. You should go visit a doctor at a free clinic or Planned Parenthood, so they can test you and find out for sure. If you are pregnant and you choose not to have the baby, you need to get to a clinic before your 12th week, so it's important to find out for sure right now. Good luck to you.
2007-02-06 10:25:20 · answer #4 · answered by fizzygurrl1980 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell them right now, you never mentioned how old you were? Sit them down and say mom, dad I need to tell you something...Im pregnant. I hope your at least 18 or 19 and not 12, Good luck and Congratulations!
2007-02-06 11:03:56 · answer #5 · answered by she2cute 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The earlier you tell them the better if you are still living at home with them. It's not as hard as you think. You just have to find the words and get them out. They might suprise you. Good luck!
2007-02-06 10:20:38 · answer #6 · answered by bluegrass 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell them right now. it is definitely the better option because they can help you in ways that u probably wont be able to help urself right now. dont forget to schedule an appt with ur doctor asap ( so u can get ur vitamins and advice on what to do next. Congrats!
2007-02-06 10:23:20 · answer #7 · answered by mzsouthernprincess 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take a preganncy test. If you are living with them, you will pretty much have to tell them. If you are its not the end of the world but you have to deal with it.
2007-02-06 10:24:12 · answer #8 · answered by Runa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well can u talk to them about anything r u close to them do you talk to them regularly about stuff?and if your about 4wks now you should tell them asap so they can help you with this its important to have your family support you
2007-02-06 10:23:31 · answer #9 · answered by jmd31 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dee... if you think you are pregnant... and are asking if you should tell mom and dad.... I am guessing you are a teen? please.. go to your mother... and talk to her...
again.. assuming you are a teen? if you are afraid? just know and understand... even if she is mad/upset.. she loves you.... she will help you out...
goodluck
2007-02-06 10:22:26 · answer #10 · answered by elusive_001 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋