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2007-02-06 02:01:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2 0

u r scared of ur husband, but for what? He is as simple a human being as u r, there's nothing to be afraid of him untill u r not doing anything wrong which u r not supposed to do. If there r any thoughts which comes into ur mind which make u feel like that, then u have to tell them or share them with someone who u trust upon. If he is doing any physical or mental torture with u, then u can lodge a complaint against him. If u think that if I can help u in anyother way or if u need anyhelp from me, then plz contact me.
There is always a solution to every problem, all we need is just to think about it in the right manner and with a positive attitude. Belive me and moreover on urself that every thing will be going to be fine. Just fight.

2007-02-06 10:17:06 · answer #2 · answered by Gaurav S 1 · 0 0

Why are you scared of your husband? If he is controlling, mentally abusive, physically abusive, or emotionally abusive then get out of there. Don't stay to become a statistic. There has to be someone who will help you. Do you have any friends or family that will assist you? Call the police if you have to but save yourself. You will not be able to change this man if he doesn't want to change. There are many programs that will help someone in your situation. If you need someone to talk to then you can talk to me but take the first step to get out of a bad situation.

2007-02-06 10:06:19 · answer #3 · answered by navy wife 1996 3 · 0 0

Dont feel alone, many women live with men that they are scared of. The first thing to remember is that you dont HAVE to live like this. There are other women who have been in similar situations to yours, whatever the details of it may be, and have gotten out. You should never be in a relationship with anyone that scares you. Try and get some help from experts - people that have been through similar situations - try women's aid, they are great.
http://www.womensaid.org.uk/. Good luck! And remember, you can get out of any situation, and things WILL be better!

2007-02-06 10:04:54 · answer #4 · answered by aeschylus 1 · 0 0

If he's being abusive towards you, and you're in fear for your physical safety, you need to get off the computer, and get to a women's shelter. NOW. They are out there, call your local police department if you need to (don't dial 911, unless it's a true emergency). They can help you be safe. Please don't remain in a situation where you can be seriously hurt. This is a situation where your safety is more important than any possessions you may wind up leaving behind. Just get away.

2007-02-06 10:02:59 · answer #5 · answered by basketcase88 7 · 0 0

oh you should not be scared of your husband. have you tried to tell him how you feel. honesty is the best policy. you should be able to talk to your husband and tell him how you feel without being afraid. i suggest counseling and if it doent help a seperation until he control whatever it is that scares you.

2007-02-06 10:02:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

god bless you ill keep you in my prayers. i have a chat room on my webpage and a few other links if you would like to check it out i have made the design so even if your husband walked in while you are on the site he wouldnt notice the help links

http://99half.com remember there is no need for you to have to go through this alone

2007-02-06 10:03:26 · answer #7 · answered by 99half 2 · 0 0

Seek help from a local woman's shelter or hotline. Go to the police and take out a restraining order on him. Do whatever it takes to get out and stay safe.

2007-02-06 10:03:34 · answer #8 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 1 0

if u are afraid due to physical abuse it is time to get away from him, if it is because of a communication and u feel u can't communicate because every time u do it's u who gets bashed, it is time to see a therapist so u can learn to ask for what u want in the marriage, if it is verbal abuse he may not love u anymore or value u or respect u. depends why u are afraid of him as to what u need to do.

2007-02-06 10:07:20 · answer #9 · answered by jude 7 · 0 0

If you are scared of him leave him and get a divorce. That is never a good thing!! You do not deserve to live in fear!

2007-02-06 10:02:07 · answer #10 · answered by housewives5 4 · 0 0

Get help and get out. I know you watch Life time for woman. Don't ended up as the movie of the week.

Good Luck

2007-02-06 10:01:56 · answer #11 · answered by choiceav 4 · 0 0

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