I think I am one of those people. But is it possible?
2007-02-06 01:51:02 · 21 answers · asked by bootylicious 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I love my husband but I fanticise about girls all the time and titties....
2007-02-06 01:51:46 · update #1
Hey Tighty! You wnat me...you want me!!! lol I sent you an email...
2007-02-06 02:28:39 · update #2
TOTALLY FEEL YOUR PAIN ... and titties too ... lol ... can't get them out of my head ... I'm really worried about getting married - just because I'm afraid I'll never get to be with another woman again ... my fiancé knows how much I love being with women sexually - ok maybe he doesn't know how much I really love being with them - since he's never let me bring one home - which I don't understand - I don't want to date them or start a relationship with them - I just want to enjoy my sexual desires with him ...to me it's not cheating - I want him involved 100% in everything I do ... but I feel like something is defiantly missing in my life ... we go to the strip clubs together and watch lots of porn ... and it's nothing close to having the real deal - in your face, bouncing up & down ... sucking here and there ... you feel me ... lol ... anyway I hope one day we get what we want ... good luck ... until then maybe we can exchange e-mails ... !!!!
2007-02-06 04:14:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Short version: Of course, but let's differentiate. You want to have sex outside of marriage and indulge in a fantasy. That part really has nothing to do with whom it is done. I am bisexual- I am attracted to the beauty of both the male and female forms. However, wedding vows are a very serious matter to me. If I am married I'm off the market-period. I am still bisexual but I took a vow the person I married is The One. That is not an inconsiderable oath (hence why I'm still single at age 37, but my girlfriend of five years is getting close to owning a new ring). I don't care who makes a pass at that point; I gave my loyalty to another and that won't be compromised. That's what works for me. Many of my friends are in open marriages. Either way, you have to get the facts up front and be clear what the rules are. Once an agreement is in place, it is absolutely vital it is followed. If you can't trust your partner (in either direction), the marriage is going to fail.
2007-02-06 02:28:06 · answer #2 · answered by wanfuforever 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2007-02-06 01:53:41 · answer #3 · answered by Phuzzy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are committing adultery. No one who has been answering your question will tell you that. Think of it, if your husband was thinking about another man (yuck) or woman while married to you, I'm sure you would see something wrong with it. If you want to have sex outside your marriage get a divorce.
Wheter you engage in sexual activity with someone else while married, or you fantasize about having sex with someone, it's still adultery. I know that there are persons who won't agree with me, but trust me it is ADULTERY. As I said it's best not to hurt your husband so if you can't help your feelings, get a divorce. That way you don't have to worry about anything.
2007-02-06 06:25:14 · answer #4 · answered by Noodle 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is possible. Bisexual orientation is not a matter of having made love to both genders, merely having the capacity - the attraction - to do so.
2007-02-06 01:54:46 · answer #5 · answered by unclefrunk 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure without a doubt. Being bi doesn't mean that you are unable to control yourself. You might like tall, muscular, dark haired men and your husband might be all of those things but it doesn't mean that you will be throwing yourself at all tall, muscular, dark haired men that you meet.
2007-02-06 02:04:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm engaged and bi. Sure it's possible. Just think of it as a larger selection of porn to choose from with your hubby. Bet he'll think it's hot too.
2007-02-06 01:55:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course yes!
2007-02-06 02:02:19 · answer #8 · answered by Ieshwar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes.
2007-02-06 01:58:46 · answer #9 · answered by Melanie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, but honesty is required for the marriage to work.
2007-02-06 01:54:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋