Personality, (honestly) what is your first impression of an introverted person?

Question

I am introverted,which means being shy and not very outgoing.People like myself are constantly scrutinized for their personality,for being a quiet,and laid back.Extroverted people are all over the place constantly talking and in need of more,and more stimulation. But,when you're laid back without much conversation people tend to think of you as being weird or crazy,and how can anyone make this type of assessment just because a person is shy,and more laid back. Introverted people are people that are usually smarter,great listeners,and keen observers,and in our society most introverted people are made to believe that they have a problem,that there's somthing wrong with them.The result to this type thinking has led many people into serious states of depression-we all have a need to be understood.Most introverts don't have lots of friends,although their cool with that because their talents keeps them busy. often times medication is described,why? because you're you-that's what is insane

Answer 1

Great Question.
I have some of the same questions about leadership. Is the ideal leader a jerk that's loud and charismatic and runs over people- is that the best leader?
But, for your question- I think that there's a difference between being introverted and being anti-social. The term introverted simply refers to how one receives energy. Some receive it from being alone. These people often have fewer, but closer friends than extroverts. If you have no friends, then, could it be that you are blaming on introversion something that is another issue entirely? Being shy is one thing, but even shy people make friends- just with like one or two friends- that's what I've always had. I'm ok with that. If you don't have any friends that's fine too- if you're ok with that- but the tone of your questions infers that you are not ok with that.
The main answer to your question is: Could it be that there are other things going on in your life that are not related to you being introverted at all? I know a lot of introverted people- and they are happy that they are that way and simply think others are weird. They have a few close friends and aren't depressed. Consider if there's something else going on in your life. Just a thought.

Answer 2

Honestly? My first impression of an introverted person is that they are introverted. I do not jump to making value judgements on their personality simply because they are quiet. I totally agree with you when you say that introverted people are great listeners, smart and keen observers. I wouldn't really agree though when you say that people think of introverted people as weird or crazy. I'd have to say, that many people actually fear the introvert - they are scared of what unnamed thoughts may be going through their heads and scared they may be more intelligent than themselves.

You're right medication is not the answer and a greater awareness of the introverted character is necessary. However, I have to say at the same time that I don't think the introvert should hide behind a screen using their character as a shield against the world. While it is fine to be introverted, when placed in social situations the introvert also needs to come out of their shell. I do not mean that they need to become the life and soul of the party, simply that they should strive to interact with new people. Yes, even if this does mean striking up conversations with strangers. Scary as this may seem, it's not actually so difficult. A general comment like, "Great party" or "Where did all these people come from!" or "the food's great" will normally provoke a reaction from the person you're speaking to. Presumably you're in the same place because you have a mutual interest to start off with - so that's always a great base to strike up a conversation.

I wouldn't really call myself an introvert although i have been called a 'wall-flower" (yeuch horrible expression). However, I have found that after much heart-thumping attempts that i can now appear not to be timid in many situations. As for the extrovert? Whereas I was rather scared of them, i now find them the easiest people to meet! All they need is a simple open-ended question about themselves and they'll go on talking for ever. However, at the end of the day, i still prefer the company of another like-minded soul to a loud talker who never gives my mind a moment's quiet.

I've added a link below which has got some good information on psychology in general as well other articles. One of these describes the physiological differences of the extrovert and the introvert. I thought you might find them interesting.

And as for the meds......chuck 'em out!

Answer 3

i think so, to a pair degree sure. My commonly used colour could might desire to be eco-friendly, my 2d could might desire to be blue. the two those colorations are stated to replicate calmness and love for nature. yet i additionally like black, i've got consistently needed a black and pink room, yet simply by fact i be attentive to black does not replicate lots easy and promises a extra ' darkish' environment, which i like while i'm dozing. probable i could say colorations could additionally replicate emotion, occasion like in funerals black is used to represent grief ( the absence of colour = the absence of emotions ) throughout. not for particular. some human beings like donning colorations to slot in or some thing. yet for me. colour represents interest and interest.

Answer 4

The personal observation that tells me an introverted person stands before me is...their inability to look me in the eyes when communicating. This action tells me either they are socially immature, dishonest or introverted. It's up to me to decide what type of person I'm talking with, I don't feel the need to criticize this person, just be aware of what kind of person I'm talking to.

Answer 5

I totally understand where you are coming from. I don't know why everyone is "supposed" to be an extrovert. I was put on medication at 14 because of it. But as an adult, I choose not to medicate myself because there is nothing wrong with me. I wouldn't worry too much about it. People just have to learn to live with each other and all of our differences. As long as your content with yourself and your life, who cares what other people think. Focus on your life's goals and strive to achieve them.

Answer 6

I think it depends on the person.

I used to be shy but for my job I cannot be. I've had to work on it but it can be overcome.

I don't really think in terms of shy or snob I just think quiet maybe.

Are you saying introverted people aren't talented. It seems you whole ideology is skewed.

Answer 7

shy or snob. shy when first meeting a couple of times, but after weeks or months and the person still wont talk then they would be considered a snob. my boyfriends roommates girlfriend is like this. i practically live over there (my bf and i have been dating 6 months) and she comes over about each night to eat dinner with her bf and hang out. she has only spoken to me once and maybe looked at me a handful of times. when we are in the kitchen or living room together she cant even acknowledge my existence (not even a nod or smile). my bf said she is really shy and still kinda like that with him (its his house and she has been dating his roomie for like a yr or so). so in all i would say its gotten to the point of rudeness.....i dont care how shy she is or anyone is for that matter (i am shy too) but at least smile or nod to show me u arent deaf, dumb or blind.....its just common courtesy.

Answer 8

I just assume they are shy. It doesn't have to go any deeper than that. It's when they start talking to themselves that I think they might be a little crazy.