she dont kiss me any more dont say goodnight i allways have to come on to her i accuessed her of cheating and she allway threating me about it dont talk no more more time on the computer than me she says it dont matter anymore i need help answering this please help thank you
2007-02-06 01:39:25 · 4 answers · asked by ed h 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
it was not to long ago we were best friends now with the other coment but i asked here if she was cheating becuse of our new son she said i changed this is my first child and her seventh it seems like all her time is on the computer she quit saying she loves me the kiss good bye are good night all i find my self is alone she says im controlling cause i get upset with her on the computer all this happend before i accused her of cheating and she is verry sexuall but now not at all she hassnt started something with me in 6months its me allways coming on to her then she acts like its a job to do we lay so close in bed but yet miles appart she tells me she needs a real man i have never hit her i tell her every day i love her and no response and this was all before i asked her of cheating she always wants to fight lately and she gets mad at me cause she says im allways off in another world im just woundering about me and her if its true are not cause its been along time to here i love you
2007-02-06 08:53:53 · update #1
I am the same way to my husband after years of him hurting me, have you done something to make her feel this way towards you? A good rule for men to know about women is that a man bottles up anger and lets it out by yelling fighting and cursing and he is all better later. A woman is the complete opposite, she holds it in more, swishes it around in her brain relentlessly, may take it out in a passive- aggressive manner, and give up. Then when you may least expect it she all of a sudden leaves. The guy is in shock and has no reason why. Women weigh their decisions carefully some even for years before they get to this point. But I can see some serious read flags not so much with the lack of intimacy... as a marriage ages and money and work and kids usually fall in top priority while sex for women fall on the back burner. We honestly don't need it s much as a man. I am more concerned with her saying that she doesn't care anymore. I would make some serious changes quick or she could be well be on her way out the door. Good luck.
2007-02-06 01:58:43 · answer #1 · answered by Destiny 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did you "accuse" her of cheating? That right there lost you big time respect! You should have a good enough relationship to be more open to her & her needs & ask what is wrong & tell her you love her no matter what it is she is feelin... If she needs space then let her have it, but controlling the situation with accusations will get you nowhere fast! If she has totally pulled away from you, then ask her if there is a way to repair the marriage. If not then, by all means do a favor to both of you & end it! Prolonging a divorce does more damage to the individuals involved then cutting it clean & moving on!
2007-02-06 01:47:25 · answer #2 · answered by T. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How much time did you spend with her before all this? How many times did you tell her how much you loved her and appreciated her before this? Maybe she is just fed up. Try harder to make her happy.
2007-02-06 01:44:24 · answer #3 · answered by kitkat 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Love you? It sounds like she doesn't like you. Try marriage counseling if it is not already too late.
2007-02-06 01:44:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋