my freind and i had a lot of beer saturday night and ended up laying on the bed together. he touched my leg and one thing led to another we jer ked and sucked eachother off ( he swallowed i didnt) but didnt do it up the bum. Have i cheated on her?? it wasnt another girl and it wont happen again so surely it dosnt count!!
2007-02-06 01:36:41 · 36 answers · asked by kingof kings 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Any physical, sexual contact with another person is considered cheating.
It does count! I feel sorry for the poor girl. If she only knew....
2007-02-06 01:40:46 · answer #1 · answered by Nunya 4 · 6⤊ 0⤋
It can be a guy or a girl, a sexual act with any of them while you are involved in a relationship with another person, is cheating. If you want to feel better about yourself, you have to face what you did and acknowledge it as cheating and make up your mind that NEVER EVER will you do this to your girlfriend or anyone you are seriously involved in again. Once you do this and you are strong about it, you will be fine. Nobody has to know about this and hope your friend shuts up.
2007-02-06 01:43:56 · answer #2 · answered by happykat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you really think that's not cheating then if not i really think you should seek help not being funny lol. if you have Aral or sexually contact with someone its cheating doesn't matter if you swallowed or not if i did it to another guy and didn't swallow it would still be cheating as i have had sexually relations with another person other than my partner. If she is willing to forget then that's up to her but if it was me you'd get a swift kick up the backside and some help out the door.
All i can say is ask yourself id she did it to another girl would you feel like she has cheated the answer should be yes.
And ask Jeeves the definition of cheating heel tell you
2007-02-06 02:02:04 · answer #3 · answered by chace 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hello!!!! It counts. Most importantly, you've got some soul searching to do. What your friend and you experienced together is not a typical "we had a few beers" kinda story. It's not a common thing for 2 "straight" guys to do on a Saturday nite. Your girlfriend has a right to know about this, so that she can decide what's best for her given your interests. It would be wrong of you to rob her of that right. There's nothing wrong with you if you'd like to explore this side of yourself, but you CAN'T drag your unknowing girlfriend along with you. It's just not fair.
2007-02-06 01:42:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
You did cheat, and the next time you are horny and she isn't around but he is, it will happen again. My guess is that he probably did a better job of it than she ever has, and you will long for that again.
2007-02-06 03:06:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You definitely cheated. The gender doesn't matter. It was the act. This is how you can tell if you cheated:
Do you think you can tell her and her not get mad?
Would you do it in front of her?
If you answered NO to both, then you cheated!
2007-02-06 01:41:44 · answer #6 · answered by U Have Nothing Better 2 Do 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
If you have to lie about it, it's cheating. Tell her the truth and good luck. Personally, if my man did something like that, the only thing I'd be mad about is that I wasn't there to watch!
Blessed Be.
2007-02-06 01:46:29 · answer #7 · answered by Maria Isabel 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes that's cheating sweetie. You had sex with another person. You have to be honest with your self and her. Alcohol didn't play as big of a role as your giving it babe. Is this the first time this has happened?
2007-02-06 01:40:03 · answer #8 · answered by {{...Ladi...}} 2 · 8⤊ 0⤋
yes mate you did cheat and whether you're gay or whether this was just an experience...only YOU can know that. Good luck with your journey but set your girlfriend free while you decide mate! x
2007-02-06 10:47:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
erm....yes. put it this way - would you be annoyed if she had done the same?
i would!
you obviously feel some sort of guilt about it so even if nothing happened, you mentally cheated on her and it's not right.
2007-02-06 01:45:20 · answer #10 · answered by britishlol 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋