if your boyfriend/girlfriend husband/wife cheats on you, would u forgive him/her or would you dump him/her.
what action would you take against him/her?
giver reasons to support your answer
2007-02-06 00:43:22 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
nope once a cheater always a cheater. i have no use for cheaters.
2007-02-06 00:48:59 · answer #1 · answered by proud_mom 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First you have to decide what cheating is, if they just kissed someone else I would take them back but I would act a little upset so they felt uncomfortable with their choice. (then again I am passive aggressive).
I actually had a boyfriend get head from my friend and I laughed about it they apologized and I dumped him because I couldn't trust him. But if you feel you can still trust them then you obviously want it to work or don't care. If you don't care they did you a favor by letting you know. But if you really want it to work take them back, talk to them about what you expect from them and what they had done to you.
Even if I had kids in the situation if I didn't trust them I would get out. Kids can sense that and you would only teach them to constantly be guarded.
2007-02-06 00:52:25 · answer #2 · answered by couty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A boyfriend - dump him. You're not too emotionally involved yet, so get out and save yourself the heartache. A husband, though, I would forgive under some circumstances. (NOT a serial cheater) We are all human and make mistakes. It would be really hard, though.
2007-02-06 00:54:37 · answer #3 · answered by Charles 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1 They would have broken my trust
2 They would have been dishonest
3 what was their reason for doing it in the 1st place
Trust, honesty, loyalty,faithfullness are all important in a relationship.... I would be deeply hurt that they had broke these and why had they broken them would be my question...
I dont know if I could forgive them or trust them again, even if I truly loved them I dont think my felings would change but it would never be the same again as they had betrayed me...
I despise lie's even little white ones which lead to bigger ones...
I would listen to what they had to say about how it happened and would tell them if they wanted to give it another go I could never trust you again and if you where totally honest about how you felt for me then it would never have crossed your mind to cheat in the first place you didnt even take my feelings in to consideration how would you have felt if I'd done it to you, you will never know till you stand in these shoe's....
I would have to finish with them if they lied once they would do it again and what else did they lie about... Why should you put yourself through more hurt they are responsible for their actions and if they say they feel guilty its lie's cos they would have felt guilty even considering it and would not have done it....
My motto never do to someone else what you wouldnt like done to you!!!!
2007-02-06 01:01:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I let my opinions known when we first started going out and one of them was we never cheat on each other. If you cheat on your partner then there is something desperately wrong with the marriage. So far no cheating, 10 years down the line. Yes I would leave him.
2007-02-06 00:50:14 · answer #5 · answered by Mrs. Shrek 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Been there. Did that. The thing was, I didn't find out about it till several years after it happened. I could pinpoint exactly by remembering his actions at the time. It was rough after the fact but we have survived and will be married 38 years in June. I still think about it once in awhile but don't dwell and no longer worry.
2007-02-06 00:48:22 · answer #6 · answered by AKA FrogButt 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
NOPE that is it, final...bye bye. Loyalty and Honesty are the MOST important elements of a relationship. It hurts sooo bad, and eventually you must forgive, for your own mental health. But infidelity is totally the end!
2007-02-06 01:22:54 · answer #7 · answered by kmoc123 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd like to think I could forgive, it would depend on many things, billy has been a big disappointment in life so maybe he could at least be forgiving
2007-02-06 00:48:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
no matter what the excuses never forgive a cheat,they'll probably say i was drunk,or we were going through a bad patch etc,but if they really loved you and cared for you they wouldn't cheat in the first place.they'd be out the door on their backside.
2007-02-06 00:50:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Although I would like to, I would not be able to. If they do it once and get away with it, they will do it again. There are no consequences in forgiving a cheater. I would divorce the sob.
2007-02-06 00:50:25 · answer #10 · answered by DeadHelen 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would clean out the bank accounts and then confront his *** and leave. It will hurt for a while and easier said than done. I believe once a cheater always a cheater.
2007-02-06 01:03:27 · answer #11 · answered by laney 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋