that he would not allow me to continue to wear my (very small) nose stud. I'm a lunch hostess at a bar, dress and groom well everyday, and do a good job (as far as hostesing goes) The nose has been there for 10 years and I don't want to give it up. If I get the removable kind, my piercer told me it would increase the scarring later on by a lot. I work 15 hours a week (desperate housewife job), so is it worth it? If I walked away, i would feel like a self absorbed butt face, but it's kind of important to me to keep the nose. Advice please?
2007-02-06 00:37:46 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Have you sat down with your boss and explained all of this to him? You did an excellent job of expressing yourself and your concerns in your question. Perhaps if you tell him what you told us, and emphasize the medical concern of the scaring issue your mentioned, he will loosen up and allow you to continue to wear the stud. Good luck.
2007-02-06 00:41:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is far from a stupid question. There's thousands of bars, restaurants, clubs what nots out there where you can work. To hell with this anal guy and his bar. I bartend and I get the same flack when my sleeve rolls up a little exposing the bottom of my tattoo. Who cares? I'd find another place to work. 15 hours a week isn't worth giving up something you love about yourself.
2007-02-06 00:45:40 · answer #2 · answered by no name brand canned beans 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chances are your going to lose that job anyway. New bosses that start out like that want to clean house and get their own staff. I know this from being on both sides of the fence. Best thing to do is see how the jobs are to fit your needs and move on before he finds something else.
2007-02-06 00:44:17 · answer #3 · answered by Baw 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are the chances of finding a tiny stud that's flesh colored? That way he can't say much about it, it'd be hard to notice, and would probably look better than the hole in your nose... Check the internet and see if you could find one...
Just a thought...
;o)
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2016-11-25 19:57:29 · answer #5 · answered by mcintire 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your boss what you have just told us. but whatever happens don't get angry with him while you do. (wait for his response)
as long as he is a reasonable person he should try to find a compromise.
You could offer to tape it up or cover it with a small skin colored plaster.
piercings are always a difficult issue when working with the public. good luck
2007-02-06 00:47:19 · answer #6 · answered by jim G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep it. i work in a nursing home and the girls with their noses pierced there are forced to wear band aids which looks a million times worse than the nose stud. i cant believe how unfair your being treated!!!!
2007-02-06 00:40:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a small square of sticky plaster bandage stuff (i know what i'm talking about but don't know how to describe it, sorry) and just pretend you have a cut or some such on your nose. customers will never know the difference and it should (note: don't quote me here) keep your boss happy
2007-02-06 00:42:09 · answer #8 · answered by visionary 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want this job then you should follow their rules or leave and get a job where they will allow you to wear peircings.
2007-02-06 00:40:36 · answer #9 · answered by Still Standing 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can you just put a band aid over it? Or look for another job where they are more reasonable?
2007-02-06 00:41:31 · answer #10 · answered by AKA FrogButt 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋