.. all i want is to be able to hang out with them both at the same time.. i hang ut with m friend and hs girl... i think it should be al of us hanging out.. i dont know what to do.. i need some insite
2007-02-06 00:06:47 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I cant help you here, but i have been in this situation a few times....It doesn't work , i know how your feeling....
I think (in my case) jealousy played a bit part...it was difficult as when i was with one friend she would call the other, ask questions and pry...then vice versa with the other friend....It's hard work and very tiring!
2007-02-06 00:12:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm always accused of trying to make my friends like each other because they're all my friends. Sometimes it works... most of the time it doesn't. For some reason these two don't like each other. You could find something that they both have in common and play on that, or figure out why they don't get along and see if a friendship can or cannot be salvaged. you might have to divide your time between the two otherwise. Good luck Sweetie.
2007-02-06 01:10:55 · answer #2 · answered by {{...Ladi...}} 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well have you talked to both of them and found out WHY they dont like eachother?? Is it out of jealousy? Or have they actually done sumthing to the other person that validates the dislike? I think if you are in a committed relationship that you would like to stay in, you need to deal with your girlfriend first & foremost. You need to cater to her and see why she feels this way. And if her dislikes come from something that actually makes sense, talk to your bestfriend and see if you can straighten things out. If not, then you are gonna have to make a choice between the two.
2007-02-06 03:47:47 · answer #3 · answered by Raynebow_Diva 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And the insight you need is found out by identifiying why they don't like each other.
Then you can either bring them to reconcile their differences or you'll know why there's no point in continuing.
2007-02-06 00:13:18 · answer #4 · answered by unclefrunk 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
god...welcome to my life on a daily basis! it's always about jealousy, whether you realize it or not!! it sucks really badly, but there is nothing you can about it, and you surely can't force it to work. it sucks to have to keep your girlfriend and best friend seperate (trust me i know!!) but sometimes people are just not willing to bend for anyone else (no matter how much they love them!)
Good luck, just do what's best for you...it's the best advice i can give, being in the same situation and all!
2007-02-06 01:00:53 · answer #5 · answered by Taken by a Texan 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
friends make interesting of one yet another for all time, yet they're nonetheless your chum. they're now unlikely to resign magnificent out with you purely because they don't love your female. My bf used to make interesting of his chum bc he regardless of the reality that his female grow to be grotesque. once he realized his chum extremely loved his female friend, he stopped making interesting of her. flow for the girl. Who cares in the journey that they make interesting of you? they're purely joking & they're going to nonetheless be your chum. it really is your existence, stay it for your self, not others. . .
2016-12-03 19:16:38 · answer #6 · answered by gagliano 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you really have to make a choice. you can't force them to like each other..If you are serious about your gf..then maybe you had better see them separately for now at least.
2007-02-06 01:34:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋