Heres the background: Me and my fiancee have been together for about 4 yrs now. he has broken up with me twice and we got back together twice. After we got back together this most recent time it was about 3-4 months into that and he tells me about something that happened when he was at work. A girl that he used to want to hook up with back in high school came in and was hinting that she is divorced now...ya kno? So he comes home and tells me about it and i ask if he would ever do anything and he's says idk, i'm stupid. Anyways, we passed that now and i told him i didn't want him talking to her. But i looked on his myspace today and he emailed her just saying hi. But he doesn't kno i check his myspace. What should i do?
2007-02-06 00:01:37 · 6 answers · asked by all4him 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If I were you I would keep tabs on him, especially if you think he could cheat on you. Better to know now then later.
2007-02-06 00:09:16 · answer #1 · answered by Tami H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey you know what...guy's mind are just the same as monkey's..They can easily change their taste & mind whenever they wish to do so...
And now there is a 3rd person entered your life, please do be alert on this issue...Your fiancee claimed that he had interest on her once before, what about her then?...Maybe she might be having the same feelings towards your fiancee, isn't it?...more over, she's a divorcee now...
Anything can happens, so please be very careful as this is your life and don't let anything to interfere your future life...Are you really in love with your fiancee, if you do then you are the only person who can make things work for both of you...
Let him know how much care and love you have towards him, let him to be melt with your gentle behaviour and kind attitude.....It wont let him to go and look for other woman...It's all on your hand, if you have the skill and ability to manage a guy, you can resolve your problem quite easily....
Good luck yaa.....
2007-02-06 09:41:34 · answer #2 · answered by VeNiE 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be careful what you ask, you might not like the answers. He has violated your trust, but you have violated his as well. In my opinion, you both need to evaluate the relationship and decide if it is right for you. He obviously has doubts as he has broken up with you twice and do you really want to be with someone who just "ends" the relationship when they don't like the way things are going? Relationships take work, but you have to decide what is too much "work".
2007-02-06 08:07:02 · answer #3 · answered by Shelley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should really talk to him about this & get it worked out.
You can't go around spying on the man each day.
It will eat away at you, You have to be able to trust him.
Your gonna have to make him choose between you & this girl.
2007-02-06 08:16:39 · answer #4 · answered by earthangel_candy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Watch the dude he may cheat on you. The painful reality is this things do happen. So be ready .
2007-02-06 08:29:26 · answer #5 · answered by Love or hate? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BREAK UP! DIVORCE! RUN! SEXXXY BUTTONS!
2007-02-06 08:45:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋