Serisously,
Probably 85%+ guys are looking forward to having sex that night.
Valetines day is just the age old equation of giving love for sex and giving sex for love.
I mean, at its simplist level.
Plus all men are pretty much horn dogs.
2007-02-05 23:58:48 · 6 answers · asked by Work is for Busters 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Holidays ➔ Valentine's Day
Yes your right! HAHHAHAHA I save my money and just do a dance and cook some steak and shrimp. Works everytime. He gets what he wants (me) and I get what I want (diamonds)
;-)
2007-02-06 00:03:54 · answer #1 · answered by dazed_and_confused 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, look at what we tend to give them... loads and loads of *stuff*..
Flowers, candy, jewelry, cards, etc....
Guys don't, as a general rule, value such crap. We buy it for the girls because *they* value it.
Women, on the other hand, think (as a whole) that "Stuff" has some sort of significance, whereas "Sex" is more of an expression of Love, but not "Stuff"... Whereas to guys, it's largely a commodity, exactly like "Stuff".
Soooo.. all the girls get "Stuff".. and they think that because *THEY* value "Stuff", that WE value "Stuff".. And they think that the sort of "Stuff" that we would value is the same sort of cutesy crap that they value.
It's just the classic dictionary problem.. Men and Women aren't *that* different, when you get down to the core.. We just have trouble dealing with each others language.
Personally, I'd rather have some form of tool, something useful, than all sorts of kitchy "cute" crap. Sure, the nookie is fun, but hey, if she's gonna get all bent out of shape because she wants to buy me stuff, I could always use another cordless drill. lol
2007-02-06 00:14:28 · answer #2 · answered by druegan2001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think i'll cook a nice meal, just something simple coz he hates spicy or saucy food. I get very excited decorating the house with pink balloons and i like to set the table with red hearts and stuff. Traditionally I put loads more effort into Val Day, but i'm the kind of person who loves to give more than receive. Once he did the red roses thing which i ADORED! And of course then i'll get sex!
2016-05-23 23:07:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
HAHA!
i thought that was an automatic thing anyway...?
i still dont get the whole 'as women get older they stop having sex' thing, or even when they get married they stop, or slow it down,
i dont get it...i've been with the same guy for 6 years, if our sex ever slows down i would be extremely disappointed.
2007-02-06 00:03:31 · answer #4 · answered by LovexRemedy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because if I don't get you anything, I'm going to hear about it sometime down the road.
2007-02-06 02:31:12 · answer #5 · answered by Lewis 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we like to make sure were buying them something too!!! AFTER ALL YALL BUY US ROSES CARDS CANY JEWLERY, ALL THAT STUFF ADDS UP SO WE CANT JUST GIVE SEX ITS NOT ENOUGH!!
2007-02-06 00:02:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋