the child is for outer world secure,pampered,-chubby child.her father is good ,but had read lot of books on parenting ,want to make the child ,perfect person.but he is very critical,constantly high-lighting the negatives.he does it with all good intentions to make the child perfect person.its like when the child gets 99 marks ,he scolds her for not scoring 100 marks,and constantly trying to control her behaviour,taking every decision for the child .,but constantly criticising she cant take any decision.
2007-02-05 23:31:59 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
I am diagnosed with D.I.D. and know quite a few people with it. Any type of abuse can cause the child to break up into seperate selves to try to find away to cope with the pain and isolation.I split up originally to try to seperate myself from sexual and physical and emotional abuses but no one knows what will push a child into D.I.D.. You can't compare one person's pain to another's but there is never a good reason to abuse a child ! Please try to intervien if at all possible ! That man needs help !
2007-02-07 09:53:25 · answer #1 · answered by Clover 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think taht parents should not burden children wid their decisions as it can affect them badly in the future high-lighting neg. pts to an extent is ok but too much also is bad n as for the marks he should praise her instead of scolding ger if so then she will work hard n get 100 also but the scolding has to stop its a total no no......let the girl take decisions n put them forward in front of the parents n if its well then she can gain confidence but if not they should make her "understand" the faults n not scold her its bad for the child
2007-02-06 08:04:57 · answer #2 · answered by bluedragon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I knew a woman that was like that. When her daughter got to her teens she was sneaking out and going to clubs in the middle of the night and running away, Now she moved three states away and
I do not think she bothers with her mom much anymore.
Often when parents are this way they might teach their kids a lot on how they should act but they are setting them up to be overly rebellious in the long run and chancing alienating them
2007-02-06 07:44:14 · answer #3 · answered by sapphire_630 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
children are the future citizens of tomorrows world.we know that child is the father of man.behaving to children should be in a psychological way,for that, tactical approach should be practised.reading parental guidance books are of no use.first of all parents should think a little of how their childhood was,whether they were bought up in strict surroundings or whatever.they should be able to understand the childs emotions.they have to encourage on seeing the childs talents.
2007-02-06 09:01:19 · answer #4 · answered by nilisha s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i guess if you always emphasize the negative in a child they tend to rebel and do the other things that is usually what you don't want them to do , ...in short they become rebellious!!!
2007-02-06 07:54:01 · answer #5 · answered by livinhapi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes,they can be.
2007-02-07 23:34:00 · answer #6 · answered by love all 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋