married man chating with married woman in other country, is it right or wrong, my husband said is wrong for a woman but man is free to chat with any lady in the world but is wrong for a responsible married woman to chat with anyman on net.
2007-02-05 23:29:21 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No he is wrong. If he feels it would be wrong for you to do it then it is wrong. Plus if it bothers you it is wrong for him to disrespect that. I don't know one male that would consider it ok for his wife to be chatting with other men on the net and I don't believe in double standards.
2007-02-05 23:33:15 · answer #1 · answered by swtlilblonde31 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHHAHAHHAHAHHA Your man is a very funny guy. Pretty much what he is sayig is that is ok for him to chat with and flirt with some unknown girl butnot for you. Quite the double stadard he got there. Ask him if he has been chating with some girl and see how he reacts to that one. I don't think this question has a right or wrong answer. It all depends how comfrtable a couple feel. Some people will tel youthat is very inapropiate while others find it just fine. IS really up to you on how you feel about it.
2007-02-05 23:36:02 · answer #2 · answered by mr_gees100_peas 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie:
What century is your husband living in? Whatever is OK for a man is also OK for a woman. It's 2007, not 1807! And they wonder why the divorce rate in Asian countries and communities is on the rise!
Ask him why it's OK for the married woman on the other end of the phone line to be talking to him or any other man.
Good luck!
2007-02-05 23:40:43 · answer #3 · answered by Loki 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any married man or woman can chat to anybody they feel like. That is a freedom that BOTH of you should have.
If he is preventing you from doing something that he himself is only allowed to do, he is controlling you. This is not good as he is violating your own freedom and being hypocritical at the same time.
If he is flirting with other women online, fine, but you should be able to do it if you want. Is it okay for him to cheat on you? No. If you feel that you are being cheated by him flirting with other women, he should respect your feelings if he loves you.
Don't let him control you and your life. That is not love. And never let him take away your pride and freedom. He is not your keeper.
2007-02-05 23:36:41 · answer #4 · answered by Nocturne_in_G_Major 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Complete rubbish!
I think that the woman has got every right as the man has got.
The fun is not only for men or single lady.
Its O.K as long as the married women or man doesn't take the any further and keep it to chat itself.
2007-02-05 23:39:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if your married, Rather male or female. It is only wrong when your spouce has a problem with it. Then you must respect their feelings and wishes and not continue to chat with the other. But if the man feels it is "ok" for him, but not for his wife. Then there is a problem. It isn't only a lack of respect on his part, he is lacking priorities in his marrage. He shouldn't have to feel he needs to talk to other women especially if he is married. He needs to walk the talk. If he wants you to listen to his feelings on the matter.
2007-02-05 23:43:59 · answer #6 · answered by Shannon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What crap!
No it's not wrong for a man or woman to talk to someone who is not their spouse. However if the conversation goes into the realm of sexual when one or more of the people is married, then it is wrong. But just regular talking is fine.
2007-02-06 00:49:44 · answer #7 · answered by Poppet 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is wrong for either of you, You are asking for trouble in your marriage if you keep it up. There are trust issues with it. would it be right if you did this in person No! Why make your husband/ wife uncomfortable? If you look at a person and say I love you and climb in bed with them every night you don't need to talk to others of the opposite sex. It will only hurt your relationship.
2007-02-05 23:37:08 · answer #8 · answered by Mary B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it all depends on what the two will be chatting about. your husband fears that if he says it is right then you will do it and yet he wont be sure to what extend. and he might also want to do it but he is now justifying it before he does. no one is wrong but yu can not do what you husband doesn't want you to do. agree on it first before yoou ruin what you have with your husband as this can cause serios differences within families
2007-02-05 23:44:19 · answer #9 · answered by icycharia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as it doesnt go past chatting then it's fine. You can tell him that the pendulum swings both ways....it cant be right for one and wrong for the other....it's either wrong both ways or right both ways....sounds like your husband has some pretty old fashioned values.
2007-02-05 23:34:39 · answer #10 · answered by ♥Mommy to 3 year old Jacob and baby on the way♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋