she have been my girlsfriend for the last two years and we were going to get marry at the end of the year but now i fell in love of another girls. i met her at the university and she is more beautifull and smart, i tried to tell her that but is very hard because she love me and i do not want affect her feeling. what should i do
2007-02-05 23:24:37 · 12 answers · asked by vicente 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
No matter what you do it is going to affect her feelings. One thing that I have learned in my life is that everything we do is a choice in life. Just as much as it is for everyone else. She can either choose to hate you, never talk to you again, or just accept it and move on, but there is nothing that you can do to make it any easier for her. She has to do that for herself.
Just remember, treat others the way you wanted to be treated.
Put yourself in her shoes and think about how you would want someone to break if off with you.
No matter which way you look at this, someone is going to feel hurt.
What doesn't kill us only makes us stronger !!!!
She will get past this and so will you.
2007-02-06 04:24:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She'll be more devastated that you waited this long to tell her! Anyone who could fall in love with someone else while engaged, wasn't serious to begin with! Tell her now, so she can go find a REAL MAN that knows how to treat a woman! Oh, and hopefully, your "new love" realizes, you'll probably be doing the same to her sometime down the line!
2007-02-06 00:47:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
men (boys) always want the best of both worlds. You want another girl but the one you've loved for 2years you want to break away from but you still want her to love you???? Why? Incase the grass isnt greener on the otherside. You're already cheating on her with your heart. Whats wrong with this picture???? Just do it. It will be the best thing for her. NOT YOU!!
2007-02-05 23:42:05 · answer #3 · answered by Daisey G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to be honest with her, at the end of the day it is never easy to do something like that, but honesty is best,
You will affect her feelings by cheating on her with other women.
2007-02-05 23:52:34 · answer #4 · answered by klly_whtfld 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Of course she is going to be devastated by your betrayal.
You should of thought of her feelings while you were screwing around on her.
It's too late to worry about them now.
You have to just tell her what you did & accept that she will hate you more than anything & you deserve that.
2007-02-05 23:45:55 · answer #5 · answered by earthangel_candy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you are a phucking asssholle dude. you cant just dump someone who's been with you this long. anyways, this aint about that. we here to give you advice, not cuss at you. what you do is this...tell her staright up that it's over. whichever way you do it she's gonna be hurt...so just tell her straight
2007-02-06 00:10:42 · answer #6 · answered by Moyo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its is impossible for you to end it without hurting her feelings. But just be honest with her and try to make it as painless as possible.()
2007-02-05 23:35:31 · answer #7 · answered by Saint 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just do it.It is going to hurt her no matter how or when you tell her if she loves you.Best to get it out and over.She can start healing sooner.
2007-02-05 23:31:53 · answer #8 · answered by Dixie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to tell the poor girl.it not right for you to play with someone feeling like that.wood you like it if it was you being play? you know what thay say what go around come around.
2007-02-05 23:34:26 · answer #9 · answered by micki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is no way not to affect her feelings. she´s gonna be heartbroken, but she´ll get over it one day. we all do. i hope you´re making the right decision. good luck.
2007-02-05 23:29:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋