men only pls, i need explainations?

Question

i just met a guy for 2 times. He is nice and i think he really likes me. he is a foreigner living in my town.
His communication type is sending sms to my cell phone but never calls me (i dont know why).
Whenever he wants to invite me for cinema or coffee out, he always sends sms like " How are u" then " what r u doing now" then " would u like to go to the cinema"
why doesnt he ask " do u have time for the cinema now" and thats enough??. There is no need to send such 3 or 4 messages for that stuff., as I think.
besides, he wants to meet me at weekends, NOT on weekdays, i.e after working hours. why is that?
What is he thinking? Is he serious? What should i do?

Answer 1

Best case scenario is, since he just came from another place, he has no home phone yet and his cell phone could be under a number that would cause his calls to be long distance. I know when I moved somewhere recently I used a lot of messages because long distance calls would've cost me lots of money, and the text messages were always the same charge... hopefully that's the case. As far as the amount of messages he sends or what he's thinking and stuff, I don't know.

But in all honestly, you could ask him if you do it in a certain way. By this I mean that you could joke with him, kind of playfully making fun of him about it, which would probably make him defend himself with a truthful answer. For example, Say you go to the cinema and he says something like "I really do love popcorn" or something along those lines. You could say, "Yeah, but not as much as you love those messages... I feel like my fingers are going to fall off every time we get off of the phone." and say it in a very non-confrontational manner, then laugh about it to show that you're not actually mad about it, just that you think it's a little bit strange. And if done correctly he'll come back with something like " Hey, it's not my fault. I only do it because......"
Maybe it will work or maybe not, but that's the best advice I can give you. Just try not too read into those little things too much, because many times they're harmless. Good luck!

Answer 2

Getting to know someone is difficult isn't it? You want to know but you don't want to chase them off, right? It's also true that if he does things that mystify you and is bothered because you ask about them, you might find he's pretty thin-skinned and that's a good thing to know. I can speculate about why he does things, but I'd suggest you screw up your courage and ask him your questions. Preface them with, "I don't mean to be rude but can you tell me why you . . .?" He'll more than likely very much apreciate the information and will feel closer to you than before.
BTW, he asks those questions to "break the ice"--more than likely a cultural thing he learned. Why on weekends? Maybe he's working weekdays? Got no clue.

Answer 3

If you dont like it tell him.He might be sending you only sms because he might have free sms and has to pay for phoning. He might be sending you so many sms`s because he has a bad habit or somthing. Tell him that you dont like it and he will stop it I noe boyz.I am 1.

Answer 4

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Answer 5

Be careful hon! Have a good think first, you may need some advice from a close friend before you commit! Have a good day!

Answer 6

He is not serious. From a mans perspective, I send text messages to people I really dont want to talk to, and call people i really want to talk to.

Answer 7

the guy might be unstable ,he doesnt want to push it very fast and is unsure,about the meetings in weekdays i dont know what he is pushing,if u r sure about him then call him and tell him what's going ,
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Answer 8

he is a bit concious give him enough time or ask straight away
he is nice just keep this in mind

Answer 9

Maybe it's because his wife wont let him call
you from her house.

get the picture, fine someone who is not marred.

Answer 10

Yeah just ask him, maybe you are super hot and he's super shy, just be candid...see what he's got.