My husband falled in love with another woman after neraly 15 years of our happly married life. We are the same age. He is very straighrforward. He told me that he choose this woman because of love and pragmatic reason of younger age despite we still have very good feeling in sex and compassion. When the couple in the same age, what are difficult when they get older? should I choose the older man for my future family? I am 33 years old, I am very joyful and opstimitic. Does the man of about 40 have jolly and delight?
2007-02-05 22:55:34 · 6 answers · asked by MIB 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Now we are very in aggreement in sex and discussion. He chose this woman because he think this way is better, but he still dosen't know the practical life with her. May be when we get older, we may meet the problems of sex and outlook. Is it right?
2007-02-05 23:02:03 · update #1
every man is different and sometimes age makes no difference...some men like younger women and some like older women. When you meet the right person, you will know. Good luck
2007-02-05 23:00:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your husband was not straightforward with you...he is a cad. Sorry. Pragmatic?? What, pray tell, was so practial or official, about this younger woman that the relationship with her became more important than the relationship that he had with you?? The reason that the left you for a younger woman was because he stupidly got his "member" in the wrong place and that other woman feretted him out of his marriage. I can't believe that you took his excuse for face value! He has no respect for you! I hope since you've mentioned that you two still have "very good feeling in sex and compassion" that you two are NOT still having sex...while he is giving his devotion to this other woman. Don't get pregnant if you are!
You are concerned about what difficulties couples of the same age will have when they get older?? Is this the pragmatic reason why your husband ditched you?? You will have less issues with a person you are the same age with (even if it is within a proximity range) than someone who is evidently older or younger than you are. Men who are 40, currently, are "jolly & delight"...and they are usually less foolish. But!! If the person has not been married yet, I would be very careful about what kind of a person they are! Remember they will be 8 years older than you...when you are 60 they will, obviously be 68. An older person or younger person...or a person the same age...it doesn't matter in concern with the heart. Men can have children when they are older...where women cannot.
Good luck.
2007-02-06 07:13:37 · answer #2 · answered by What, what, what?? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I really don't think your age plays a big part in who you end up in love with.
Many men as they get older want a younger woman to make them feel younger.
However, there are also the men who can look & not touch, who remain faithful to their spouses.
If your husband found a younger woman & your on the single scene again I'd say find someone more mature who knows what he wants in life.
While age isn't really the issue, An older man will be more responsive to your needs & feelings.
Good Luck Hun.
2007-02-06 07:02:19 · answer #3 · answered by earthangel_candy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No dear its not a question of sex. as i m 38 and i m so sexy and hot. but the other side the husband is not only for sex, so first put ur full positive efforts by asking to ur existing husband that what he is behaving like that. than only u can decide other option. god bless u and all the best
2007-02-06 07:39:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most men prefer to have a more matured woman at younger age and as they progress, they would prefer to have younger ones. Because at younger age, they need a woman to stand by him and at elder age, they need someone whom they can pampered.
2007-02-06 07:03:10 · answer #5 · answered by yeng mee k 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He talked toyou like that head for divorce and get a good lawyer dont' let him talk any more like that what a moron.
2007-02-10 02:20:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋