I just want to bring this to some people and most of all to some women i want women who are in an abusive relationship to know u can leave ok when hes gone u pack up and go u have family there are shelters just get out of it noone i mean noone no matter what u have ever done in your life deserves to get beat by some shovanistic pig who thinks hes better then u i got beat as a child so and my mom got beat when i was young she didnt leave cause he said he would kill her u can vanish off the face of the earth now there are so many programs and support groups that can help u so please especially if u have a child because keeping your child when u are in an abusive relationship is wrong its effects them in alots of ways especially in the future so please all women out there who read this look for a program get in and go because u dont need to get beat or hit at all u dont deserve it at all noone does it might sound like im rambling but this is what i think about these peices of trash.
2007-02-05 22:50:33 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Good on you, Scott. You are so right. A man who hits a woman or a child is a coward. No woman should put up with this, we all need to support women and children who are being abused and help them get the support they need. We need to tell them that they are worth more than being a punching bag, even if he tells them otherwise. Society should not tolerate it either. Best wishes.
2007-02-05 22:59:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of children who have been abused end up being abuses (sad, but true)... so you are showing a really good example of not becoming an abuser.
I'm really sorry to hear this happened to you and your mum. I couldn't imagine what it would have been life.
When I was 14 I had a 19 year old boyfriend and he was verbally abusive and violent and threatened me all the time. I felt as though I couldn't leave until one day my friends helped me out and told me to be strong. I'm so glad I left him - he was a nut and said so many mean things to me. He drugged me and everything :(
It's been over ten years now and even though we were together only a year he still haunts me. I just hope he isn't harrassing some other girl out there.
2007-02-06 06:55:53 · answer #2 · answered by dancingalicat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was in an abusive relationship for many years. the problem is we (woman) really think we can 'change'' this man. but you cannot. and often you realise it too late....the key is to leave after the first smack...when you forgive and allow that person back into your life the first time...well that is just the beginning of a very long journey filled with MORE abuse....its just NOT worth it. and you are right, no woman deserves that!!!
2007-02-06 07:39:01 · answer #3 · answered by halfpint 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry about your childhood and your mom...you are right but some women are just too afraid..it is a very sad thing
2007-02-06 06:53:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur a nice guy that understanded girls and womens feels.
2007-02-06 06:57:55 · answer #5 · answered by Tia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well said
2007-02-06 06:54:12 · answer #6 · answered by DeeDee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋