Last year i had two miscarriages my first was in may i was 6 weeks pregnant my second miscarriages was september i was 12 weeks pregnant i went for my normal 12 week scan to find the baby had died at 8 1/2 weeks, Me and my partner are trying again its been four months since my D & C. I would like some words of experience is there hope after two miscarriages, i dont smoke or drink me and my parnter look after ourselves very well i have a daughter from my previous relashionship who is 3 years old this year.
2007-02-05 22:45:12 · 21 answers · asked by Lisa 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
Sorry to hear about what has happened to you...
Hang in there, I'm sure it will happen soon. Like Mariette, I have had 2 miscarriages and an ectopic pregnancy.... You need to stay positive. I know exactly where you are coming from, it can be so difficult some days, but you mustn't let it take over your life too much. Some days, weeks, months are easier than others, stay optimistic and you will have a healthy baby soon.
Make sure you are getting checked by the hospital.. you can get a referral from your GP to a miscarriage clinic to run various test, scans, and treatment.
Good luck xx
2007-02-06 23:27:23 · answer #1 · answered by ஐ♥PinkBoo - TTC #1♥ஐ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is always hope. Sorry about your losses. I had a normal healthy child. Then my second pregnancy ended in a stillbirth. I had two miscarriages following that. A year after my last miscarriage, I had another healthy child - who at the mo is bugging me to play teletubbies on computer. You have to be patient (which is so hard when all you can think about is babies and getting pregnant.) When your body is ready, you will become pregnant again. Maybe you need to give yourself a few months break from trying and start again. When you do fall pregnant you can ask for an early pregnancy scan to put your mind at rest that everything is going well and also a fetal monitor helped ease the rest of my pregnancy.
2007-02-06 00:10:19 · answer #2 · answered by Rachel G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
please dont give up hope, you will have another baby when the time is right. My wife has suffered both miscarriage and still birth but we have been blessed with our 3rd baby who is due on 22nd feb. nothing can replace the babies that you have lost but one day when its meant to be you will have a healthy baby to look after and bring home. When you do fall pregnant again I imagine that it will be hard for you but just take each day as it comes, make sure that you have alot of support and dont expect to much from yourself, its natural to be distant and scared for a while. Insist on regular checks etc with your next pregancy because of your history, scans will help to re-assure you. My wife and I bought a pre-natel listener with this pregnancy, you can buy them in mothercare for £29.99. We found it realy helpful as on days that my wife was very anxious we would listen to our baby and our minds were put to rest. If your finding it hard to cope emotionally see about seeing a bereavment counsellor. Your body as alos been through alot and may take time to fully recover, just keep eating well, taking folic acid and exercising and your body will do the rest. Try to relax as stress can prevent conception. Good luck
2007-02-05 22:55:02 · answer #3 · answered by thedaddy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok hunny, well i am so sorry for you, and don't worry it will happen for you, A friend of mine had a couple of miscarriages then feel pregnant and had a healthy little girl, the outcome was that she couldn't carry boys....Not saying that this is the same for you, just thought i would pass on the information, keep your chin up and all the best of luck for the future..xx
2007-02-05 22:54:36 · answer #4 · answered by prince_ss06 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes there is hope never give up
I know someone in a similar situation only their baby was still born then 2 miscarriages later now they have a beautiful daughter so don't give up
2007-02-05 22:55:20 · answer #5 · answered by Black Orchid 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes absolutely!!!
After my first child I had 2 miscarraiges in similar situation to you, I found out at my 12wk scans, but I went on to give birth to my second child on the third pregnancy. I also know quite a few women who have had 2/3 m/c's and gone on to conceive.
Ask your docs if you are suitable for taking baby aspirin, it can help in women who suffer multiple miscarraige.
Good luck
2007-02-06 00:05:05 · answer #6 · answered by lisaandmax 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Know this...You can get pregnant! You will get pregnant, I had a friend that I worked with and she was devestated, she had 8 yes 8 miscarraiges and she thought there was no way, finally after her 8th miscarraige ( a couple months later) she got pregnant again, she thought she would miscarry but she did not, she carried that baby the whole way and he was born totally healthy, god works in misterious ways! Have no worries, it will happen!
2007-02-05 22:51:56 · answer #7 · answered by echc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Frist I am so sorry about your lost
I have also exprience 3 misc but my husband & I still want to try
the last one was just in Dec, I will wait for about 6month to 1 year
before I try again for now I am trying to relax and letting my body & mind recover (I am still crying over the first one )
Good luck & God bless
2007-02-06 00:33:25 · answer #8 · answered by waiting for baby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes there is hope! my friend had 2 miscarriages and an ectopic pregnancy, and she now has a little girl! keep strong and hopefully all will work out. Good luck x
2007-02-05 22:52:58 · answer #9 · answered by Mariette 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes there is hope after a miscarriage,but you also need to check why you are having them,talk to your gynecologist he will run some tests for you.and don't be in a hurry let your body and mind take a little break and soon you will get pregnant again.
2007-02-05 22:51:55 · answer #10 · answered by realistic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋