whats the greatest thing you've done for the one you love?!?
2007-02-05 22:42:09 · 13 answers · asked by Nurmala 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
When someone truly loves you, there will be certain signs; of caring, understanding, etc. It will be demonstrated in our everyday life. Buying red roses or going for a candle light dinner is definitely NOT the signs, because it is simply bought with money, and love cannot be bought by money. Love can never be bought. Apart from sharing your happiness with you, the person will always be there in hard times, when you need a shoulder to lean on. That person will never run away when you need him. One more sign is that you will be able to see it in the person's eyes. Repeatedly saying "I love you" doesn't say anything. True love can only be expressed by actions, not words, nor money.
How far to prove love? Haha. Love cannot be proved dear. It can be shown and felt. You don't prove how much you love someone, because that way, it'll be like a buying and selling deal. You prove how much you love me first, then I'll love you in return. Love is unconditional. You can't stop loving a person even if the opposite person hates you a lot, because that's what true love is all about. Although rare to find, there still may be some few people.
The greatest thing I've done? I don't know how great, because in true love, even the smallest thing can mean the greatest for the opposite person. For example; some people may cut their wrists for the other person. And what a coincidence? We talk about proving love here again. So, someone cuts their wrist because he/she feels that by doing so, maybe his/her lover's problems may decrease or they may do it just to prove their love. But you know what? That is totally meaningless. Why? If you want your lover's problems to decrease, then go and help him/her. Comforting and trying to solve the problem is the most important. Cutting wrists is in fact just increasing problems. And or prooving here? If you want to proove, even a hug can make a difference. Go and talk to your lover, instead of prooving your love by cutting your wrist.
Now, I hope you actually understood what the point of true love is. It is unconditional and can only be expressed emotionally or physically sometimes. It cannot be bought or sold. If you love someone truely, enjoy the feeling, because it feels great. You don't necessarily have to get the person you truly love. Remember, it's unconditional.
All the best to you! I hope you find your true love soon, or if you have already found him, then, hope all goes well!
2007-02-05 23:19:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, seriously, relax. If you really love this girl you need to sit down and come up with a plan for you to better your situation, and get your life going so that some day you can be able to be something more to her than just a boy that needs her to lean on. You need to become the kind of MAN that she can go to, that she can confide in, that she can lean on. Graduate HS, go to college or join the service, and get your self a career. Then if everything between you guys is still the same, and she is still the one you love, then you can make some real plans. Right now you need to tell her that you love her, but you have to get some things in your life together. So you would like to keep in touch with her, so once you are ready, you can plan a real future with her. And to answer your heading question about how far would you go? well, you have to set your goals to see what will make her the happiest woman on earth (realistically, not like those dumb love movies), that's a good place to start.
2016-05-23 23:02:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way u can ever know u are truly in love is when u yourself know it u shouldn't have to even question it u will just know. U shouldn't have to prove anything if u both love eachother.
2007-02-05 22:45:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
When that person cares enough to put their needs ahead of yours. How far I've gone when I really loved someone ...? Not to prove anything but I did, Give them up!
2007-02-05 22:45:35 · answer #4 · answered by fabby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having to show proof is bad. The soul will show your true feelings. If someone needs proof of another's love, they themselves are not yet deserving of that love.
Unless there is a VALID reason, and not just an excuse, for the request.
2007-02-05 22:50:58 · answer #5 · answered by A dad & a teacher 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is Love and no need to know when your partner loves truly or not because when times in need one's call with your love one, u will see the truly love from your partner's reaction.
hehe...the most recently incident, I have saved my another destiny alien gf from the fated disaster even though she doesn't know it but I still feeling GOOD by protecting her.... hehe...and I am so proud of myself. You are good now.
That's the power of love. I recommend Boy George's song Love is Love.
Updates:
I also protect my present gf but she did not appreciated and in the end I got my tongue burnt. I will remember that to be more conscious. lol!
2007-02-05 23:10:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is a rusty museum piece that was long gone with the dinosaurs a long time ago. Nowaday lust is a more meaningful emotion. Everybody for lusting for someone and they confuse it for love.
2007-02-05 22:53:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I have never been in love but i imagine that it is when you would kill to save your lover. When you cant get close enough and when words can't describe your emotions for your soul mate
2007-02-05 22:45:43 · answer #8 · answered by Queen Bee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay in love with him and keep taking care of him even when found out that he has a serious health issue that may change our life style......make him feel that no matter what we'll alway's be together and you'll always be there to take care of him
2007-02-05 22:46:52 · answer #9 · answered by japfa 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
by they way the act towards you.
i`ve gone as far as France to propose to my gf.
i took my women to Hawaii and to Paris.
2007-02-05 22:46:54 · answer #10 · answered by Dr Universe 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋