is it possible that after 15 yrs of marriage that a husband would fall in love with another woman other than his wife? or u will think that's he will soon be back to his senses and that his wife and kids r there for him at the end? he has a taste in women and appreciates beauty..and i told him that i know of his relationship but he has to remember he has a family
2007-02-05 22:26:28 · 18 answers · asked by Meme 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He could fall in lust yes. Love too maybe, but less likely.
2007-02-05 22:28:49 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Its a sad old world we live in, with all the TV and movie hype showing all these sexy women that have had babies and still look sexy, its a bit brain washing. I married a top looking Shela that has given me four wonder full kids, these kids have taken their toll on her body and unless i have a few million dollars to spend she will never have that sexy body back again. But do I want it back? No it was not the body I married but the beautiful person inside that is still there to day. Age and time beat us all, men and women alike and if he can only see skin deep then I feel sorry for him because after 15 years he should know that your the best friend he will ever have no matter how you or he looks. A married life can be hard with kids as well but like anything you only get back what you put into it but some people think its easy just to walk away.................................
2007-02-06 06:41:21 · answer #2 · answered by god 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men and women think the grass is always greener on the other side. Life has gotten boring. It is not exciting any more. So, they look for adventure. Not realizing that live will turn out the same way in a few years. Men will never admit they made a mistake. They will never admit the truth too much ego. The old saying what goes around comes around. Sure hope it does for these people that hurt others all because they are bore. They tear up lifes and ruin children with their self center interest. One day someone will hurt them as they have hurt others in the name of friendship, cheating, lusting and having fun.
2007-02-06 07:28:51 · answer #3 · answered by springer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it is not possible.. I can tell you from experience.. I was married for 16 years then left my wife for a women that I thought I was in love with... it is a very long story.. but the short end is that it was a mistake.. not love at all . we men some how confuse love and lust.. are brains are just wired that way.. but that was ten years ago I wish you the best
2007-02-06 06:31:04 · answer #4 · answered by robtiger2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi there this is a reoccurring thing in alot of womens lives every day they watch there husband with a different women u need to offer him a choice either he comes back to you and his family or its over cause once a cheater always a cheater no matter what anyone says its how men are we think we can get away with it show him that he cant.
2007-02-06 06:30:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Anythign is possible and after so many years of marraige more so than ever because of the need of change in ones life (sex life) whatever reason it is possible they will give up a long term marriage for something new due to lack of something in current situation. think about your reltionship with your husband and try not to think of his infidelity as a negative thing but possibly a positive for you really. come on are you still in love with him and happy emotionally, sexually etc. Could you do with the change in your life as well? You all can still be there for each other but really what have you got to loose from the change in this relationship? You must love him to be accepting him back when he comes to his senses, so i guess it's just a sexual urge he is taking care of when he is with her. do whateve it takes to enhance your own sex life with him because relationships thrive on a good sex life. Our spirituallity is enhanced also with a wonderful sex life . Its connected and the key to a never ending relationship with him would be to enhance your existance with him so he remains in love with you.
2007-02-06 06:39:41 · answer #6 · answered by clarissa l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, he could fall in love with another woman. It all depends on his emotional state. If he's just middle age crazy and wants a fling to recapture lost youth, he may snap out of it and go back to his wife later.
If not, he's genuinely tired of his marriage and wants to start something anew.
2007-02-06 06:30:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
around age 30-41 men step back and take a deep look at their lives. this is when they realize they are not what they want to be in their lives and unfortunatly where most divorces occur. with the rising rates of divorce too it seems ever more common in modern society.
2007-02-06 06:31:09 · answer #8 · answered by Learning To Fly (again) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love comes from hearth but words come from mouth. You may think about your wife and also about your girlfriend but behind the one that will suffer in the future is our children. So think it many time.
2007-02-06 06:32:54 · answer #9 · answered by fgsr 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a classical case. Women love men who are jerks. They're constantly yearning for men who mistreated them. They're looking for irresponsible men who will leave them. They want men who are selfish. They want men who abuse them. They need men who cheat on them. Your husband is one of those men who are jerks. You love him longtime because he has exactly what you and most other women are looking for. He's not going to change. He's a jerk and women like you are worshipping him for being a jerk. Why should he change ?
2007-02-06 07:15:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The problem is how wishy washy you are about the whole thing. It sounds like you are gently reminding him instead of freaking out like most women would and should do.
2007-02-06 06:30:53 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋