I cheated on my husband and had sex with my boss. My boss is single and is threating to put in a bad name for me for my next job, I gave my 2 weeks notice becuz I have decided to move on with my husband, not him. Anyways, I feel bad for what I did to him. But my boss is such a bad boy and u know how that is. He kept rubbing up against me and writing emails about how fun it would be if I gave him blow jobss while he was working, I cant believe my sex life was in his office, nor that we would cancel his meeting to do dirty sex or rough sex. Some times, I wouldnt even work. Has anyone cheated on thier spouses? I AM going to confess but please tel me your experience, so I know what to expect. I dont know if he will forgive me but it's well worth the effort. How did you tell your spouse? Please advise
2007-02-05 21:48:09 · 6 answers · asked by Justme 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i never cheated on my ex but he did me, i was devastated, and it ended the marriage, so maybe it isn't always good to tell it. as when u do tell it, it will change the way your spouse sees u. just forgive yourself, and ask god for forgiveness, and move on in life. your spouse may act as if he understands at first but he will never forget it. why tell him and ruin your marriage, u learned a hard lesson here, why risk the chance that he will not forgive u?
2007-02-05 22:38:38 · answer #1 · answered by jude 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes i did on my first husband many times and i am not proud of the fact and regret it to this day and wish i never would have done it to begin with. He was hurt but forgave and we gave it another shot. You need to confess and be honest here and tell your boss to buzz off and get him for sexual harrassment... What he is doing to you is wrong. You also want to quit under the grounds of sexual harrassment and find a different place of employment. Just be honest and tell your spouse. Honesty is the best policy.
2007-02-05 22:22:52 · answer #2 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
My husband hasn't ever cheated on me.. even after we were courting. although, in the previous I met him a number of my ex-boyfriends did cheat on me. the first time it got here about, I dumped the guy and disregarded him on each and every occasion he tried to the contact me. yet all over again, yet another ex of mine whom i idea i develop into deeply "in love" with, cheated on me. i develop into extremely disillusioned and cried for days. yet I gave him yet another chance because i develop into information and wanted to trust that he develop into extremely sorry. Then he did it again.. after the 2d time, I dumped him and moved on.
2016-11-25 19:48:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
aw you liar.you wish you had boss like that..the pay off from the sexual harrassment lawsuit would get you to retire.
2007-02-06 02:28:50 · answer #4 · answered by 2u 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Make sure your alone and tell him with many apoligies. He may not forgive
2007-02-05 21:54:09 · answer #5 · answered by Photographer 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
don't tell him -- some things are private; you'll mess-up your life unnecessarily
2007-02-05 22:20:42 · answer #6 · answered by ekim2211 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋