I'm a 23 yr old black athlete. I am into guys and girls, and I know PLENTY of other guys that are too. I'm not feminine at all and don't only wanna be with guys. I've never cheated on anyone I've been with, regardless of if they were of the opposite sex or not. So I know I'm not gay. But why is it alright for girls to be bisexual and not guys?
2007-02-05 21:22:02 · 4 answers · asked by Fredrick W 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
You don't have to be gay to cheat or find the same sex attractive. Bisexuality, unlike homosexuality, does not relate to a preference but the lack of one. Bisexuals have little or no gender preference, while gay people exclusively prefer the same sex. It isn't unusual, however, for bisexuals to lean one way or the other, which is why I said "little or no" gender preference.
2007-02-05 22:05:18 · answer #1 · answered by roxusan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've some good answers there, sis. Uncle Joe's answer is interesting too. :) It has been said that the apostle Paul used to be a "religious mafia", persecuting the church, until the Lord Jesus met him on the road to Damascus. Instead of judging and condemning Paul, the Lord saved him and transformed him into an apostle of grace. In the words of Pastor Peter Youngren, that's "scandalous grace". :) I'm not familiar with the term "Sermon on the Mount Christian", so I'm afraid I can't comment anything on that. :) Thanks for the great question, sis. God bless you. :)
2016-05-23 22:56:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, the difference of being on the "Down Low" could mean one of two things, either that you are cheating, like you have previously said, or it could mean that your not wanting everyone to know about your business. Who you sleep with is up to you and doesn't have to be anyone else's business what you do. Being bi-sexual, is then being open and honest that you like both men and women, and to that it sounds like you already are.
Kudos to you for not cheating. Bi-sexuals and even gay people get a bad rap because many of them do cheat. It is nice that there are people out there that won't cheat no matter who they are with!
2007-02-06 01:07:03 · answer #3 · answered by mgrboy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Enjoy who you are with those who accept you. The idea that bi-females are more accepted is down to the old male fantasy that it would be great to be involved in an MFF situation.
2007-02-05 22:29:33 · answer #4 · answered by unclefrunk 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋