A male friend of mine often tells me that the majority of guys cheat on their partners and that I am naive for thinking otherwise. He cheats on his partner and I suspect he says these kinds of things to justify his own behaviour. What do you think?
2007-02-05 21:15:49 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Only immature, stupid men cheat on their partners. I wish people would stop making stupid remarks to the contrary. It is only because a man is stupid that he would cheat. If you love someone, how could you do something like that? I have been with my wife for 13 years and I have never even considered such a thing. When I see her, my heart still races. I think that she is the most beautiful woman in the world. I know she isn't all that beautiful, in the way that most people think, but she is a good woman and a wonderful mother to my son.
If someone cheats on someone, then they are stupid and should be thrown out; PERIOD!!!
2007-02-05 22:31:20 · answer #1 · answered by A dad & a teacher 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
while human beings exchange into emotionally agitated and lose sense of reason, alongside with starting to be very offended, their techniques regresses to an intensive to-animal-like-state. Animals compete with others of the comparable gender for friends. in basic terms a male guy or woman able to better-point rational theory will stay away from the area of leaping to blame the guy. many times, it is not even the guy's fault, simply by fact often the female will only lie approximately being single. long tale made short, that's specially the female's fault and not the guy's. it is the two going to be the female's, or the two the female's and the guy's shared (assuming he knew she grew to become into not single). Defaulting to get offended on the guy is an illustration of psychological weak point and inferiority on the component of the aggressive husband. If somebody is in a courting and that they chosen to cheat, it rather is definitely their decision. This is going with the two gender. If a female is "susceptible" adequate to cheat like that, that's her fault for being an inferior man or woman, only like it may be the guy's fault if he cheated - and the guy's fault if he blames the incorrect guy or woman. people who hunch into that are without difficulty inferior human beings with decreased psychological determination. some human beings might call it judgemental, even nevertheless that's a actuality, not a remember of subjective opinion. Now, it is obviously assuming a topic the place guy or woman A did not galvanize guy or woman B to cheat by some ability, yet you spot the element.
2016-09-28 11:58:25 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men & Women both cheat and it can stem from numerous things, from not being happy in the relationship which I never understand why people stay, just leave and do your thing why hurt someone over your hormones, how much that person truly loves you and wants to be faithful to you, and how happy you are with yourself, a good majority of people that cheat on their partners have underlying issues with themselves and they dont wanna deal with them and instead flict it onto others. If only people opened their eyes and realized things this world would be a better place but come on thats wishful thinking LOL
2007-02-05 21:22:12 · answer #3 · answered by sarahkay1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that there are 2 types of cheaters, the ones that are not fullfilled with the realtionship they currently have, and those that just can't resist being wanted by any decent looking woman. They love the attention, no matter how good of a woman you are to your man-he will cheat-although there is a small percentage of men that would never cross the line, and those are hard to come by.
The moral: Be discerning about someone's character before you fall too deeply in love to have any judgment capabilities at all.
I remain -- Faithfully yours.
2007-02-05 21:50:25 · answer #4 · answered by iloeta1164 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
people both men and women cheat for different reasons. people say if you don't have trust you shouldn't be with them. difficult if you really like that person. some people cheat all their lifes, others remain loyal. maybe you friend have reasons in cheating, sometimes it's for what you can't have, other times temptation - if you know someone is all over you men in particular take advantage of that, some cheat to not get cheated on. difficult to say. but cheating will always hurt the person who loves them and he'll learn one day.
2007-02-07 03:48:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I use to think that men would not . and once there with someone they love thats it. But unfortunately that is not the case anymore. I think were fooling our selves if we still think that way.
I think you should just enjoy the relationship and when it fizzels out and he strays either take it as you knew it would come its inevitable or deal with it or move on. depending on how you feel and what you can live with. I notice more women now are also doing the same. So i guess if your not fullfilled in your relationship thats what you do.
2007-02-05 22:12:50 · answer #6 · answered by For ever in my Heart 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a line all cheating men give. I heard it from my own ex. I had 3 brothers and none of them ever cheated, but all of their first and second wives did. Anymore it is about equal, though I still think there are more men cheating than women.
2007-02-05 21:24:55 · answer #7 · answered by Fruit Cake Lady 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think you are right. Many partners cheat but not all and I don't think the majority..good luck
2007-02-05 21:24:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I don't think most do - you just only ever hear about the bad ones. Nobody wants to gossip about the guy who is faithful to his woman.
By the way, give your friend a slap up side the head from me.
2007-02-05 21:26:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
it is 50/50. i've cheated on partners. and had others cheat on me. so i don't think men are totally to blame.
2007-02-05 21:19:35 · answer #10 · answered by maxine g 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋