2007-02-05 20:55:28 · 12 answers · asked by Anaïs 2 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
If I am sitting in a restaurant alone I would be very offended if a guy invited himself to sit at my table, simply because I like to eat alone and don't like the company of strangers. No offense, but that is just how I am.
2007-02-05 22:36:17 · answer #1 · answered by spiritcavegrl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm, good question.
I've never seen a woman alone in a restaurant but I was in a hotel bar on my own one night and a woman asked me to sit with her. Quite innocent....just to have a chat while we were having a drink.
I'm glad she did that so if I ever saw a woman eating alone then I'd give her to option to sit with me. I think it's a nice thing to do but it could be misconstrued so you'd have to be careful how you ask.
2007-02-05 21:03:53 · answer #2 · answered by TonyB 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First, how rude.....didn't you see my ring. Otherwise, maybe if you presented yourself politely and weren't arrogant about it then a big maybe, once again. Inviting yourself always implies you have an arrogant behavior and many men who have done so, even when I wasn't wearing my ring were turned down.....
I'm sorry if your question was toward men, but I had to answer that one, just to keep you out of my area in the future.....no offense.
2007-02-05 21:02:52 · answer #3 · answered by kaliroadrager 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, because it would probably end up in an awkward position after she says:
"Get lost, Im waiting for my boyfriend!"
And then you would be distracted the whole night and attempt to not make eye contact out of embarassment!
2007-02-05 21:01:17 · answer #4 · answered by ya_face_sux 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nope. That would be too bold. I would however ask if she would like to join me. My treat. Sometimes a little dinner conversation with a stranger is uplifting.
2007-02-06 04:22:49 · answer #5 · answered by Chistiaŋ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How rude and arrogant would that be! Unless I make good eye contact first, and she sends back good energy about it, then I might , but I don't like to force or impose too much in cases like that...First there has to be something special happening for me to do that second step.
2007-02-05 21:04:29 · answer #6 · answered by Sherluck 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
NO! thats like invasion of privacy. I`d rather stay alone
2007-02-05 21:02:10 · answer #7 · answered by Lancelot 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. I would never do that. Mainly because it rude but also because even if it wasn't, I'm not confident enough! :)
2007-02-05 20:59:03 · answer #8 · answered by Shaun 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would walk over and say hi, hope you enjoy your meal....then it depends on if and how she responds as to what I do next...
2007-02-05 21:02:09 · answer #9 · answered by chiefof nothing 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No..I figure if she didn't want to be alone.. someone would already be sitting with her...
2007-02-05 20:58:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋