you are seeing each other for 3 months
2007-02-05 20:53:18 · 12 answers · asked by shyn 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Depends on your boyfriend, really.
2007-02-05 20:58:00 · answer #1 · answered by Wendy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well I fell pregnant when I had only known my fella 3 months and when we found out he waited outside the bath room and I came out and said crap and he said crap and we hugged and then he said what ever I wanted to do he would be with me. I made an appointment to see my doctor to discuss options, and my fella as he was a back packer said he would stay but I told him to go and and travel and then he could come back if he wanted or if he didn't want he could just go back to the UK . We kept in touch every day and he worried so much and had decided to come back to live no matter what the decision cause he loved me but I have a m/c at 6 weeks before I saw my doctor so I told him and then we decided to meet up in the UK 4 months later. We are now married and ttc our first baby.
- it depends on the guy I have friends that couldn't be happier and other friends that bailed at the first hurldle.
good luck.
2007-02-05 21:27:01 · answer #2 · answered by mum 2 Cameron and Ewan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I would expect my boyfriend to be shocked. After all, 3 months isn't a long time and I would guess that neither of you planned to have this pregnancy so soon (maybe even ever) in the relationship.
I'd tell him and give him time to absorb it (ans take responsibility!) but I wouldn't expect anything else...
2007-02-05 21:20:12 · answer #3 · answered by sedatedeyes209 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I became pregnant after seeing my boyfriend for 4 months so similar time frame to you. At first he was speechless and had the look of fear in his eyes. I didn't know what to say and I knew not to talk about it and to give him time. The next day he called me and asked me to come over and we talked about it and in the end he was happy. But unfortunately I had a miscarriage a few months later.
You guys are still early in your relationship so all I can say is give him time to absorb the information and don't push him to start talking right away but make sure after a few days you guys have talked about the situation.
2007-02-05 21:01:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well that depends on what type of person he is, and lots of other variables. Is he ready to be a father, are you engaged, or will you marry each other in the future.? Do you sincerely love each other? If you can ask all these above questions and have positive asnwers for them, then I am sure your boyfriend will be overjoyed, and will be happy for the both of you!!
Regards
Zaphod
2007-02-05 21:06:35 · answer #5 · answered by Zaphod 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i had been with my boyfriend for 6 years when i got pregnant and he was as happy as i was cause our son was planned but it being three months i wouldn't know what will be said to you hopefully things will go well because when you think about it if he didn't want kids he would have been using condoms.
2007-02-05 20:57:21 · answer #6 · answered by ஐ♥Julian'sMommy♥ஐ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HI SHYN, I would want him to be proud that we were going to have a baby. That he would want to take care of me,and the baby after born.But alot of guys just like to play,and get what they want,and when the girl becomes pregnant,they run out on the girl. Leaving her to take care of everything herself. A Friend.
Clowmy
2007-02-05 20:59:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-03 19:10:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thi I will tell you, I would tell you as a man to go to hell and find the father.
I would not get a woman pregnant for any reason.
Now if you are and it was him then both of you are stupid.
If you are old enough to F.U.C.K then getting pregnant isno accident.
2007-02-05 21:01:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
An initial shock, then he'll either scarper or be delighted. But intially shock either way!
2007-02-05 21:01:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋