I live in Dubai which is very strict when it turn to men2men relationship. Being a Bi sexual, with orientation towards other male for only oral fun which is most of the time a 69, i need to know how can i control or stop this need for another man for s*x. I do have a happy married life with lots of satisfaction when it comes to s*x.
2007-02-05 20:31:07 · 7 answers · asked by m s 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
You are perfectly normal ....men have been turning to men for centuries I don't care what others say....men need men to bond with and that's including s@x....If you are happy being married then stay married ,If you don't like your life change it....but don't change just cause society thinks you should .
be happy.....
2007-02-05 21:12:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is indeed a problem. Being bisexual or even gay in an Arab region is very difficult and sometimes dangerous. You can not simply stop your bisexuality like a leaking water. You have to live with it and probably control it. The only way to control your desire for men is to basically distance yourself from places frequented by good looking men. Avoid places or situations that you see attractive men in beaches or the swimming pool. Get yourself busy in work or your hobby. Enjoy more time with your family. Like an addiction slowly cut down on your sex with men until you can control it. You probably need to masturbate more often.
2007-02-05 23:56:53 · answer #2 · answered by PAXson 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me tell you, its NOT natural to have an orientation for a male to turn to another male. Its all man made and the media is largely responsible for crating such an atmosphere that terms like 'Gays, lesbians and Bisexuals' have taken by storm.
Almighty GOD created man for a woman and vice-versa. What you mean by orientation is just a pseudo feeling that has engulfed your mind and does NOT allow you to think beyond this.
This is all Satan's doings which are the fuel for the vain desires that man has inside him.
Look at the natural world. Two electrons repel each other. Same is the case with any two similar charges. Almighty GOD created women for men so that we find peace and solace in them. This is the Rule of 'The Creator'.
To follow the instructions of The Creator is what is BEST for our social, moral values and health. Submit your will to GOD. Crush your vain desires for the sake of GOD.
http://www.harunyahya.com/m_video_creation_man.php
http://www.harunyahya.com/m_video_miracles_quran.php
http://www.harunyahya.com/m_video_quran_leads_way_to_science.php
2007-02-05 21:04:53 · answer #3 · answered by flameslivewire 3 · 0⤊ 4⤋
Well, you can keep on denying who you really are and go back into the closet and live a miserable life. That's one option available to you.
2007-02-05 22:12:19 · answer #4 · answered by MaryCheneysAccessory 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The answer is you concentrate on your marriage. You made a commitment to her and the sex is already satisfying.
2007-02-05 23:22:23 · answer #5 · answered by unclefrunk 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
better be careful
2007-02-06 02:05:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your answer is ALLAH
2007-02-05 20:35:26 · answer #7 · answered by SadDad07 1 · 0⤊ 5⤋