lost it.That`s why i want to know if a doctor can identify how many guys had made love to a woman.so i could prove it!
2007-02-05 20:18:09 · 14 answers · asked by nicole o 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
What a idiot husband
Don't you wish he was not your first
He should know that riding a horse or playing sports can break your hymen...
Sorry your first experience was with that looser.
2007-02-05 20:23:20 · answer #1 · answered by Tiffany 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
No, a doctor cannot identify how many men have had intercourse with a women. There are few ways to tell when a person has had sex, barring DNA testing for semen in the vaginal canal (within days after the event itself).
Losing your virginity does NOT mean that you will bleed; many women do not. Bleeding is associated with the rupture of the hymen, the membrane that is supposedly in place before a virgin is penetrated. However, many girls/women lose their hymen long before they lose their virginity. It can be eroded by vigorous exercise (biking, gymnastics), tampon use, or other sexual activities (non-intercourse). Some girls aren't born with a hymen at all! So the lack of blood does not by any means signify that you were not a virgin. You COULD go to the doctor and have him/her explain the situation to your husband, if that helped. The doctor would definitely assure your husband that lack of bleeding does not signify that you were not a virgin.
2007-02-06 04:29:14 · answer #2 · answered by jazzy girl 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The hymen can break before first having sex for many different reasons, most common are bike riding, horse riding and most sports.
Some women bleed, some dont, its not really a big issue.
If you know he was your first you shouldnt have to prove anything, he should trust you, and besides you cant fake the pain when you loose your virginity.
A doctor cannot determine how many sexual partners you have had.
2007-02-06 04:29:52 · answer #3 · answered by Krystle 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are referring to the part of the vagina called the hymen. The hymen can be ruptured by many causes such as vigorous exercise, or the use of tampons. All virgins do not have their hymen intact.
There is no way a doctor can identify the number of men you had intercourse solely from an physical examination.
Discuss your concerns with your husband......
2007-02-06 04:24:53 · answer #4 · answered by nicewknd 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
hmmmmmmmm - if the female has been very athletic, the hymen may have torn during strenuous exercise/running
I am not sure even a doctor could prove how it happened
tell jerk of the month to wise up and enjoy your precious gift
you are the best ! Proud of you! Very!
*sigh*
2007-02-06 04:25:19 · answer #5 · answered by tom4bucs 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
No, there's no test. And a hymen can break for a million reasons (exercise, fall) - especially if you wait any time at all. I hope this isn't a big deal for him, because it is obviously a big deal to you that you waited that long. Tell him that trust is both the only way and a necessity in marriage.
2007-02-06 04:22:43 · answer #6 · answered by kathryn3 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Excuse me, don't you see anything wrong with this situation at all? Firstly, he married you because he's loves you and shouldn't be concerned one little bit about your past. Anyway, it's none of his business!!
Secondly, what, he doesn't trust and believe you????
Thirdly, you need to prove your virginity to him!!!! How dare he challenge your honesty in such a fashion!!!
Step up, girl, tell him no, you won't be providing evidence to prove he took your virginity and if he doesn't like that well tough!!!
Who knows why you didn't bleed, why should it matter??? Love doesn't need to defend itself to itself!!!
CHEERS &GOOD HEALTH
2007-02-06 04:27:24 · answer #7 · answered by Minx 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Some women simply don't bleed. A doctor cannot tell how many men a woman has been with. Sorry...
2007-02-06 04:22:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
See faith plays the most important part in marriages and if that is missing then marriage will never be a happy one. Anyway both of you go to a sexologist he would be able to counsel both of you and if that solves the problem then well and good otherwise I am afraid that you have to separate and no other go.
2007-02-06 04:23:40 · answer #9 · answered by ssmindia 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Nice husband.
You know... I'm wondering if you are the husband posting, pretending to be the female?
A woman wouldn't post this kind of thing and most women know that the hymen can be broke by other things.
Most women with BRAINS would be too busy crying , realising they married an asshole who would accuse her of such a thing.
2007-02-06 04:55:39 · answer #10 · answered by Fluffy 4 · 4⤊ 2⤋