how do we know that our husband is cheating on us?

Answer 1

ask the one next to you?

Answer 2

Thats very easy. If he is cheating just by freaking out with some girls then he will give unnessecary explanations which you never asked for and will also behave in an overcaring manner to keep you happy so that you dont access his emails and mobiles and dont spy him. But if he is seriously involved in someone then he will fight with you on every single point and will try to keep you away by one reason or other.
Regards
Pankaj

Answer 3

When he starts to ask questions about where YOU are going or who with!When he starts to go out at night (or day) when he didn't do so before.When he changes his hairstyle or buys different type of clothes which he wouldn't normally do.When he spends more money than usual and cant account for it!When he comes home late at night having been "out with the lads" and dives straight in the shower then falls asleep on the sofa for several hours before going up to bed....i could go on and on, but maybe you,ve got the gist of it by now!

Answer 4

I guessed my husband was cheating on me was when he used to come in after being out, he always went upstairs instead of coming in to the same room as me. he couldn't face me you see.

Answer 5

When they start acting different towards us and if they cannot look you in the eye... Sometimes they become more distant and dont want to be with you as much as they once did. A woman can usually sense something is wrong and different. If you feel this way ask him if he is doing anything or not....

Answer 6

I think it's hard though. Some guys can cover really well. I know my bf's housemate that he seems nice, friendly and kind of responsible man. If not because he taught my bf how to hook up girls on the Internet and have sex with them. I won't think he is that kind of person if not my bf told me after I caught my bf putting his profile on myspace.com and without telling me until I asked him. Good luck though. but if you still want the marriage, it would be better not find the truth.

Answer 7

do you really want to know?
if you have suspisions you must be thinking about how you will deal with the situation. if you knew for sure he was cheating would it change anything/
if he is cheating, he will let you know somehow. in the meantime be true to yourself.

Answer 8

They will start to take more pride in their appearance, put on more aftershave, tell you they love you more often, go out side to take phone calls,or in another room, start to do their own washing (lipstick)Delete their in box, will go out more and come in late with a crappy excuse.They might even buy you more flowers and pressies as they are feeling guilty.Watch out girl!

Answer 9

starts out with him buying u things, he is guilty, than he begins picking fights finding fault, he acts as if he isn't even in your life anymore, he may show a different side of himself during love making, seems he has changed. he may begin to take better care of himself physicallly, he takes his calls in a different room or outdoors, he says he has no money, means he is saving it to move on, not interested in u or anything he use to be interested, any little thing u ask him to do has become a big issue. he seems bored, complains that he is depressed and says he hates his life. he may go out alot more, saying he is meeting friends, but stays gone alot longer than he used to. he often times tells u he regrets meeting u, or marrying u. he hurts u with words, name calls, u feel unattractive to him. your intuition is telling u something is terribbly wrong, but u really don't know how to handle it, he picks fights, so when he does leave u he will be able to have something to blame it on. he deliberetly provokes arguements to get u to react. there is little or no conversation, he seems alot less compassionate, not really seeming to care anything about u. his family seems to treat u differently, he makes excuses about having to work over, or out of town, than tells u not to tell his boss if he calls, because he doesn't want the boss to know he is working on his own. but somehow he never seems to bring home any extra money on these extra jobs. his whole personality has changed has he become someone u don't even know, just who is he listening to anyway, who has changed him so? has he become cruel and mean? he seems to be nervous and does he pace or sit with his hands covering his face, does he fail to look u in the eyes? is he trying to get u to committ to something financially that could put u in debt if he weren't around to help u? he may be setting u up so u will be financially ruined when he does leave u. so he has the money to buy u out of the home and u will not. does he seem to be hoarding money, does he get upset if he has to give u money on a bill? he is saving his money to go, and he is no longer open to saving the marriage as he already has someone he is sure of and is just waiting to leave, waiting for the next argument so he can leave with a clear concience and blame it all on u.

Answer 10

You should notice unusual behaviour.Is he going out more ? working later? dressing up? All giveaways to cheating.

Answer 11

if he doesnt seem intrested in you....like wont touch you or kiss you or be intamite (however u spell)...check his cell phone for unusal numbers or text messages...if he comes home smelling like purfume..or has lipstick on his shirt...very short temper with you...you catching him in lies...staying late at work! i would call his work phone to make sure he is even there..and if your really wondering hire a private eye to watch him...hope this helps!