My friend was really stoned and made a mistake and had unprotected sex with a mutual friend of ours on the 24 or 25th of January. She was supposed to get her peroid on the 1st of febuary and is 5 days late. Even though she has been getting plenty of sleep she has been exshuated the last couple of days and feeling nuasea(can't spell sorry) and has been vomting at different times of the day but usually in the morning or at night. Even though she gets plenty to eat she never seems full. Also her boobs have been a little sore also. Any advice please. Also she if she is pregant she does not want to tell our mutual friend and I think he should know. Should I tell him if she is pregant or let him find out for himself cause it is a small town and there is alot of gossip in it?
2007-02-05 19:58:59 · 14 answers · asked by lovelyaquariusfairy 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
She still does not know for sure yet but he already knows about her possably being pregant she asked her neigbhor for advice and she told him about it at work .
2007-02-05 20:29:45 · update #1
It does sound like she is pregnant. If she has not had sex with anyone else, then the "father" your friend, needs to know. It is unfair on him. She needs to have a test 1st before any other decision is to be made.
2007-02-05 20:10:42 · answer #1 · answered by Jassie's mum 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She most definitely IS pregnant!! As to telling her friend.. ABSOLUTELY.. even if she feels she can take care of the baby herself .. which I think if the friend is more than willing to help then more power to him and she should accept it because having a baby all by yourself with no help is a lot of very hard work. But, at the end, no matter how many people are saying to tell him it really comes down to your friend and what she wants, even if it isn't the right choice.. but that's why she has you.. to be by her side and if you feel she is making the wrong choice, then to also try and convince her otherwise.. but other than that.... I hope everything works out for the best!! GOOD LUCK!!
2007-02-13 00:31:02 · answer #2 · answered by TABI 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well... first your friend needs to take care of herself until she knows for sure...which means, no getting stoned or drinking! Then, she needs to go get a pregnacy test and/or a blood test to confirm if she is or not. Some of her symptoms sound like how I felt when I was pregnant, but she could be stressing herself and making herself feel these things because she thinks she may be pregnant, but like I said a test will tell! If she ends up being pregnant than i think you have to be supportive and she def should tell the guy about it! He has the right to know and eventually it'll be hard to hide such a thing!
2007-02-05 20:21:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When was her last period?? If her period was due Feb. 1st, then she possibly was ovulating the 18-20th. But, if she has irregular periods, then she may have been ovulating right around the time she had sex. (I know that my period was Feb. 14, I had sex the 25, and I got pregnant.) So, every woman's cycle is different. It depends on her individual cycle. Her symptoms are classic pregnancy symptoms. If she is pregnant, then the dad needs to know. It's only fair to the baby. If she is mature enough to have sex, she needs to be mature enough and tell him the news. Good luck!
2007-02-05 20:20:33 · answer #4 · answered by K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that she should either get a home pregnancy test or go to a doctor to find out if she is pregnant. (It really sounds like she is...) Since the friend already knows, she should tell him the result either way.
2007-02-13 15:45:38 · answer #5 · answered by Matty'sMom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, being stoned is no excuse. Secondly, she is showing all classic signs of pregnancy. She should tell the friend if she is pregnant, he has the right to know, however, it is not your place to do so.
2007-02-05 20:09:26 · answer #6 · answered by Angelina 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she can do a home pregnancy test or go to the doctor.
then she needs to decide if she will keep it or not.
if she keeps it, will she look after it or have it adopted etc.
yes tell the boy, he has a responsibility, to the girl, to the baby, and to himself
He needs to practice safe sex to stop unwanted pregnancies and ruining a girls life, to keep disease free for when he finally settles down with a single girl and he needs to understand what he has done
2007-02-05 20:13:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell her to take a test and find out for sure...if the mutual friend knows something then when she finds out shes pregnant he will almost certantly find out.....tell her to be honest with him...its his child too....BEING STONED IS NO EXCUSE for being even more irresponsible....just remember its not the childs fault his parents are stoners
2007-02-12 23:20:44 · answer #8 · answered by p3ngu1n 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think she should tell him,its his-fault as much as hers, it takes two to tango, or to make a baby,then he can be involved in whatever they choose to do,it would take some of the stress off her and put some on him to, they did it together now they must be responsible for their actions,tell her good luck, i wish them well,she'll need you,her mother, and him to get through this,god bless them, and hopefully she'll learn from this, always use protection or don't have sex!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-02-13 13:48:32 · answer #9 · answered by debbie d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay out of it. It is not your responsibility to tell him. Be a good friend to her, support her thru this time. Hopefully they will be more responsible with their baby than they were in the conceiving part of it.
2007-02-13 05:07:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋