Being married for one year and my wife went to see her parents overseas for 8 weeks. When she came back I noticed she was very conservative when having sex and when finished she has a way of getting her feet under my legs and push me away. She has changed and I don't want to imagine what it could be....
2007-02-05 19:40:01 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Divorce her. It's only going to get worse. You might as well cut your losses and save yourself the trouble. She is a typical biatch who thinks that she is entitled to all of the benefits of being a woman without having to fulfill any of the responsibilities.
2007-02-05 19:44:00 · answer #1 · answered by Sax M 6 · 0⤊ 6⤋
i can see how you may feel that something is wrong because she is acting different. how were things before she left? you need to ask yourself that question...is there something she can be bitter about with you. Either way, the key is communication. Go to dinner and open the can of worms. Ask her if everything is ok as you noticed she seems a little distant. There could be many reasons...do not jump the gun and assume anything...like she is cheating...do not think that as you have no proof. that will make things worse if she didn't...maybe someone in her family has an illness or she discovered some bad news? anything can put her off as being cold. you need to talk to her and see what's on her mind. Marriage is a strong bond...thru thick and thin...talk to her and listen. if there is something wrong between the two of you, then work on it and fix it...good luck to you...and i wish you many many more years of a happy marriage.
2007-02-06 03:52:17 · answer #2 · answered by youngm1335 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk with your wife and see why is is treating you this way and why so drastically... Maybe she had an affair while she was overseas or anything could be going on. Have you changed at all while she is gone? Seek marriage counseling and help for your marriage if need be. Have you gained any weight while she has been gone? If so maybe she is doing this if she feels you are too heavy for her. Try letting her be on top and in control at times and see if this changes anything.
2007-02-06 05:42:59 · answer #3 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u need to know no matter what the answer is, so u will know where u stand in the marriage. so u need to sit down and have a heart to heart talk with her. maybe her parents are telling her things about u, and all this is causing her to rethink the marriage.
2007-02-06 11:06:42 · answer #4 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
May be a good news too..... Is she pregnant? Check. During the first & second months of pregnancy girl like to be away from men.
2007-02-06 03:55:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just come out and ask her and make sure she can look you in the eye when she responds. The sooner you can get past this the better, whether it's mending your marriage or starting over for yourself.
2007-02-06 03:47:35 · answer #6 · answered by Jem 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Make sure you make her feel special by doing romantic things. Dont jump to conclusions...maybe its just time for a change in your sex life and its time to spice things up by trying new things.
Have you asked her why she does that?
2007-02-06 03:45:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like in that time she was away, she either cheated on your has developed feelings for someone else.
2007-02-06 07:15:35 · answer #8 · answered by Teddy Bear 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you try ASKING her?
You've only been married a short while. You've got a lot to learn about each other.
2007-02-06 03:49:23 · answer #9 · answered by Avsky 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Ask her, the most important thing in a marrige is communication.
2007-02-06 03:43:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
ask the chick what her problem is..perhaps her family was talking trash bout u to her or are you horrible in bed? was she wild before in bed all out freak?
2007-02-06 04:16:59 · answer #11 · answered by ♥queen b♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋