I have been married for a year and my wife started saying I am not big enough at 7.5". I know her previous partners were large men. Is it true large men are in proportion. Now it seems she wants what she had before.
2007-02-05 18:26:32 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I don't think you are telling the truth, but 7.5" is a little above average.
2007-02-05 18:29:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look, if she want to go back where she came from then you should allow the heartless woman to go back to swing on somebody else pole. I know a guy that's 6'9 and so small. This guy have to have special made clothes, because he's so tall and built, but honestly he is so small. When you love someone, that's not what you feel anyway, you must have been OK, she married you. Maybe, if you want to stay with her, you should try other things in foreplay to pleasure her before the actual penetration. What I want you to think about is... how could she not try other things before she decided to break this to you like this and break your heart? Maybe instead of saving her sex life, you might try saving yourself from this heartless person. Being married means you work hard at keeping each other happy not by bringing up the fact the other guys she have laid with is bigger than you. If they was so great, why didn't she marry them? Don't let what she say break your spirit, ask her what do she want you to do and if she don't want to answer, then it's not you. It's an excuse for her wanting to be with someone else.
2007-02-06 02:55:08 · answer #2 · answered by Go GO Ressa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK! don't be fooled 7.5 is huge because i think the average is 5-6 normally. I'll just say this when you truly love someone size doesn't matter as long as you can feel it, touching them, looking into their etc. is a recipe for good cooking if you know what i mean. She was with you before you were married so what is it now that she is complaining? Good question huh? Well maybe try something else or buy something bigger and use both.........think on it.
2007-02-09 22:00:02 · answer #3 · answered by keriss 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try experimenting with other things sexually. Keep her guessing so she can't get bored and start thinking about bigger pastures.
there are also positions that maximize your feel in her - but you'll have to do more research on exactly what they are. google kama sutra perhaps?
also, tell her if she's hurting your feelings by just busting that out. She has no right to just start criticizing a part of you. how would she feel if you just started saying her vagina was too loose??
not all big guys have big penises. but i think it tends to be proportionate a bit - but with a big range. there are certainly big guys with small ones and little guys with big ones.
2007-02-06 02:34:37 · answer #4 · answered by imnotachickenyoureaturkey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why the hell is she telling you about her past experiences anyways? Tell her if she wants them so badly to go back to them and let them deal with her ****! Who needs a ***** like that? Any woman that would bring up past ho downs is not worth your time. And please get out of this before the kids start coming and end up the real casualty of this marriage.
2007-02-08 11:57:32 · answer #5 · answered by ren r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
7.5 is above average and I don't know why your wife would want something more. My guess is you could try to improve your technique. I doubt it's your size though.
2007-02-06 07:36:04 · answer #6 · answered by swtlilblonde31 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that your wife is comparing you with past experiences, which is not good at all. She should be happy with what she has. Her expectations are too high! How can you accept what she tells you?
2007-02-06 02:33:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She must do something, do some exercise. And i can tell you have pretty good boy.Wow!Not every women can handle big thinks.
2007-02-06 02:38:51 · answer #8 · answered by burdalow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you measured it? whew!!!! that's big enough for me! but maybe you can give her pleasure more in other ways, the toungue, the fingers , whatever ... talk to her why she wants more!
2007-02-06 03:04:36 · answer #9 · answered by majal_lu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not about size..its about the motion. if you find the right spot i bet she wont say anything =D
2007-02-06 02:30:13 · answer #10 · answered by lolomgwtf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋