just met a guy for 2 times. He is nice and i think he really likes me. he is a foreigner living in my town.
His communication type is sending sms to my cell phone but never calls me (i dont know why).
Whenever he wants to invite me for cinema or coffee out, he always sends sms like " How are u" then " what r u doing now" then " would u like to go to the cinema"
why doesnt he " do u have time for the cinema now" and thats enough??. There is no need to send such 3 or 4 messages for that stuff., as I think.
What is he thinking? Is he serious? What should i do?
2007-02-05 17:32:37 · 9 answers · asked by pussycat 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
There are 2 probable reasons;
1 He gets nervous on the phone. It IS easier to sms. That way he doesnt have to nervously await your answer. Could be he really likes you.
2 He is married or attached and cant be heard talking to you. Sms is a lot easier to get away with!
Next time he sends you an sms I would phone him straight away. And say 'yes I would love to go with you',- or what ever you want to say.
That way, if he is nervous it will break the tension, OR if he is with someone he wont be able to talk with you and you'll be able to figure it out.
Just stop communicating with him via sms. If he really wants you he will pretty soon get the message!
2007-02-05 17:46:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know where he's from, but maybe, just maybe, texting isn't that big where he's from. So now, he's found something fun to do with a phone.
Also, maybe he's not too confident with actually "saying" things. Some guys are just not confident enough to ask a girl out. It's easier for him to ask you out via text because it lessens the chance for him to actually "feel" the rejection.
I think he likes you. Give him a chance and see where it goes.
2007-02-06 01:44:24 · answer #2 · answered by Scott D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run fast and far away. Do not look back. Men who do not believe in a one one one "face to face" are not worth the price of a ticket to the cinema!
2007-02-06 01:47:18 · answer #3 · answered by catmom36 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he a Middle easterner,like from Iran,Iraq ,Saudia Arabia, the U,A,E, Turkey,North Africa or any other muslim country and is he muslim? See ,thay regard western and european women and anyone who doesn't follow their ways of religion and burkas on women to cover their faces and figures as "Infidels" and not worthy of the respect of "introductions and protocols when it comes to "dating or meeting women." They consider women of the modern societies as pieces of meat and something like doormat or a prostitute
2007-02-06 01:52:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him. Set him straight on what your standards are for a man. Not some boy hiding behind his cell.
2007-02-06 01:42:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he's a foreigner he might not understand the ways of our society
2007-02-06 01:37:30 · answer #6 · answered by some_one1234 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. way of approach varies from person to person.
2007-02-06 01:46:39 · answer #7 · answered by prabhakar_ace 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he probably doesn't want to be seen as coming on to strong either.
2007-02-06 01:38:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope he is not serious, you do not even see the guy!
2007-02-06 01:49:56 · answer #9 · answered by majal_lu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋