is that a turnoff ladies?
2007-02-05 17:25:32 · 24 answers · asked by dfdsf d 1 in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
Women are different, they go more towards soft core romantics.
2007-02-06 05:11:21 · answer #1 · answered by DECEMBER 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let the fact that you haven't done it yet weird you out. A LOT of people lie about how young they were when they first did it. No survey that asks say, a thousand 16-yr-olds about their sex lives is going to be accurate-- you'll get a lot of lying. 75% would probably SAY they'd done it while actually only 25% have. If you worry it about it too much, that will just distract and detract from you getting what you want. You've got to try to relax around women. Just be yourself and stuff. If you're paranoid about being a virgin, she's going to sense it. Those who waited until they were older are not sorry they did. But most of the people who did it too young are. Don't worry about it-- that's when it becomes more likely to happen. And why would a chick want you to have banged a bunch of other chicks before her? Yes, they like experience and confidence, but they also LOVE a sensitive, communicative man who isn't ashamed to admit something personal like that. In fact, it could really be played to your advantage. Tell the chick you really get to know and really want that you've basically saved yourself for her. You haven't been ready but now that you've found her blah blah blah....
2007-02-06 05:22:23 · answer #2 · answered by Fireant3 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
No! not at all!
Personally i prefer guys that are shy ..cause it means much probably they are more serious in love ...no one like to be cheated!!
And , since u dont open your heart ( and any part of your body ) easily, if really can be in a relationship with u (with sex included ) is like winning an important conquest! So, no only It is not a turn off but veyr very challanging!!
2007-02-06 01:41:10 · answer #3 · answered by tifanii 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my religion everyone is a virgin until they are married. So no it's not a turnoff for me. It's actually highly respectable. Shame more women and men can't wait until marriage to have sex.
2007-02-06 11:14:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong with that at all!
I was a 20 year old virgin who married a 26 year old virgin. We've been married 13 years now.
I preferred a virgin because it made things more special--knowing that I was his first, and not just another girl to have sex with. So if anything, it's a turn-on.
2007-02-06 12:47:23 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's more of a turn on than people will admit. I think it's totally awesome that someone thinks that much of themselves to wait and make it what it's suppose to be. 3 cheers and a hooray for that!
2007-02-06 08:19:37 · answer #6 · answered by Yahoozula 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No not for me to find that a person is a virgin is like OH MY GOSH YAY ! It makes me treat them with more respect. I'm a virgin and i'm 18. It's not all about sex i'm sure it's great, but come on people there's more to life.
2007-02-06 07:22:26 · answer #7 · answered by Gen 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I guess women prefer guys who know what they are doing. I suppose though by having had a promiscious life prior to marriage it will be harder to get used to to never have a swap again.
2007-02-06 14:48:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is your virginity; you shouldn't care whether it is a turn off or a turn on to other people. I think if a girl gets turned off by you being a virgin, then she needs her head examined--and why would you want to be with someone like that anyway?
2007-02-06 02:44:55 · answer #9 · answered by retorik75 5 · 4⤊ 1⤋
well it depends on 'why are you still a virgin?' if it's coz u neva got anyone to do 'it' with then...yea it is a turn off... but if it's coz of ur policies or..um..maybe coz ur well educated and have an ambition in life n don't think that sex is 'THE ONLY THING" then NOPE! ladies will think ur a hottie! they'll melt.. u know how we ladies are.
2007-02-06 04:22:04 · answer #10 · answered by Trisha 2 · 2⤊ 2⤋