Seriously I have a problem. In the past 3 years I have not lived in any one place for more than 5 months. At first I love a place, but then the newness wears off and I start to feel like I am wasting my life with the monotony of normal daily life. And I get really depressed. The only thing that keeps me going is if I start planning a new move. But I am also sick of always starting over again and not knowing anyone. I've only been living where I am now for a month and I am already planning to move again (but for different reasons, I fell in with a bad crowd, and I need to get my life straightened out). This is not normal is it? I don't see most people doing this, but for some reason I can't commit to any one place ( I have commitment issues), but seriously what is wrong with me? Thanks!!!
2007-02-05 17:24:36 · 4 answers · asked by menau 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
I'm in college. And I'm currently at my third school.
2007-02-05 17:43:39 · update #1
Seek profesisonal counseling and don't rely on the yahoos on Yahoo to answer serious questions of this nature.
2007-02-05 17:29:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi, there is absolutely nothing wrong. You are fine. Because you are doing something very often doesn't mean something is wrong with you. But what I feel wrong is feeling guilty for it. I think this is what is troubling. You may be an adventure freak. Just be bold to do what you do. Do feel guilty, don't sympathize yourself. Look out for all the positive results that you have got because of this constant switching of places.May be that is the strength of yours. Concentrate on those things and look out for more adventures. I think suddently you caught up with fear and guilty feeling. That's it. Just overcome these two and keep moving with a smile in your face. Take care
2007-02-06 01:40:19 · answer #2 · answered by Eliza 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love spontaneity in people, however this is extreme. You need to evaluate what you want out of your life and the atmosphere that will support that want. What are you doing for a job?
Once you find friends that you really care about or a job you love, you will most likely want to stay.
2007-02-06 01:35:11 · answer #3 · answered by BeachBoarder 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like You have "wanderlust". Other than that there doesn't appear to be anything really wrong with You other than the fact that You bore easily.
2007-02-06 01:33:20 · answer #4 · answered by Ashleigh 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋