do u believe in true love? what does true love signify and mean to u? i was in a "true love" situation with a guy. he was my 1st boyfriend. it was so cute cuz we were in 4th grade. well now i am a senior in High school. well i moved after 4th grade, losing all contact with him. i have had many relationships since then, but i don't know why i am still so in love with him even though i haven't see or heard from him in 8 yrs. i had dreams of marrying him some day, spending every moment of my life with him. i guess dreams are meant to be shattered... i still hope that someday i will meet him, because he is the love of my life.
2007-02-05 17:16:17 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
yes .true love is there ..iam loving a girl from seven years without even listening to her voice......and after 7 years i have found her in net....but...she is not telling any thing.......but i still love her...is this........... not ....a true love???????????????????
2007-02-05 17:22:08 · answer #1 · answered by criss 1 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Funny let me tell you a story. I had a boyfriend starting in kindergarten. We were together up until 4th grade. I thought i was in love. but came 5th grade and he ended up being with another girl. i was devastated. She would constantly throw in my face how she had him now. Luckily we were not in the same class. Well i moved after the 5th grade but could not get him out of my head. I would think about him all the time and even hope to find him one day. Well i was about 18 and ironically one day while at work he walked in. I didnt notice him he actually noticed me and said my name i turned around and could not believe it. Apparently he knew some of my co workers. Well of course we hung out for maybe a week or two after that. And in a sense just picked up like nothing happened. But do you know what i realized. I realized that after so many years we were two totally different people. Friends yes, but anything more than that did not work. But i had closure which was what i think you need. If you can find him, i would suggest doing so. It put what had been eating at me for so long at ease and i was able to move on. I hope that hearing that helps you at least a little bit.
2007-02-06 02:00:33 · answer #2 · answered by static1182 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ur not alone. I am 17 right now and also got ur same prob. My girl left me right after 6th grade and i am sittin here and waitin 4 her 2 return...but doesnt that sound a bit more stupid than romantic? Look at the number of people livin in the world and look at ur life span and try figurin out the chances 2 meet ur long lost luv. Dont waste time and keep movin. I hav got a girl now and am happy. And always pray that my first luv also is havin a happy life coz thats the most i can do. And if u r so eager.... Then nothin is impossible... Go for it girl!
2007-02-08 13:08:30 · answer #3 · answered by Heatndie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that it's funny I looked up a guy after 18 years and we were together for a long time and still would be if he wasn't using.They say you never forget your first love. I think it is true for a lot of people. If you know where he lives try looking him up he might still be in the same town. Call info and see if thy have a listing for him or any one with the last name you might get a relative that could lead you to him. Good luck
2007-02-06 01:27:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've heard that you have 3 people in your life. The first one is your true love. The one you'll always love. The next is the person you marry and have kids with. The last is the person you grow old with. If you're lucky you'll find all this with one person, but if not find comfort in knowing that you are not alone. I also am in love with someone who I can never be with. He was my first love and we met in middle school. (I am now 27) I always hope that we will end up together. He will always be the greatest love of my life. Best wishes!
2007-02-06 01:26:28 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
yeah i believe in true love but sometimes i have doubts.i luv this guy right now he is just so perfect & i cant stop thinkin about him!ive liked him 4 so long!he used 2 like me but im not sure if he still does..n e way umm i think that 1 day u will probally find some1 u love way more than that old boyfriend of urs.plus,u dont even know that boyfriend u had in 4th grade anymore he has probally changed alot.well ttyl
2007-02-06 01:24:47 · answer #6 · answered by ♥!jamie!♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
True love is an innocent love. A love that is free from selfishness or greed. It is about giving from ur heart completely. Why dont u try to find this true love person again from your 4th grade class.
You never know, he still could be single, never leave something so precious up to chance. Make ur own destiny and find him
2007-02-09 12:36:31 · answer #7 · answered by virgin 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
dreams are fine but still keep live in reality! first love is always the puriest and filled up with first things! memories are tricky. they usually appear to look happier in distance. you don't know how much he's changed or what kinda person he's turned into. if you have doubt, you should find him out and meet him so your love may continue or get shattered. either way is fine as long as you figure it out yourself. good luck!
2007-02-06 01:22:36 · answer #8 · answered by xyz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do believe in true love but i don't think it's any one specific thing, it really just depends on how you feel about someone. It's not something you can just think about, you have to feel it and when you do you just know you're in love without having to analyse or think about it. If you think you're really in love with this guy, and this may sound like a cliche but listen to your heart and go find him. Try to re-establish that connection.
2007-02-06 01:23:04 · answer #9 · answered by Acid 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
everyone remembers their first true love and even if they havent spoke with dem forever! if u keep thinking u will meet him then trust me one day u will....everything happens for a reason..mayb ur having those dreams becuz its a hint 2 u datz dreams do come true....good luck and keep ur head high....
2007-02-06 01:22:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
see luv is naural i.e a glorious gift by god . i may think that u shold keep loving ur b.f 4ever bcoz life is short n it doesnt come again n again.
2007-02-06 01:21:35 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋