And she said...oh i'm sorry...and she didn't mean to does that mean in a later time she could become abbusive she always likes to know where i am...and what i'm doing!!! very controlling
2007-02-05 16:49:13 · 10 answers · asked by HottielesbianTX 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i do believe we should take a close look at someones behavior before we marry them, and know that it will continue, been there done that, and marriage with that person doesn't change who they are. she has some issues about cheating maybe she has had a bad experience before, and being with someone like this doesn't make for a very good marriage. got to pay attention to what u are seeing out of her now, as it can show u what your future will be like once your married to her.
2007-02-05 23:35:45 · answer #1 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't allow a controlling person to be around you, a controller will always be just that.. controlling.
And totally put you through hell when you want to exercise you own personal strenths..
It's better to be alone and wait and see what God what's for you..
and, if you are consciencely having doubts, THEN GET AWAY FROM HER..!
You gotta start putting you first..
I know many people have written very detailed responses to you... but you should consider a personal program to do somethings to make you look better, cause when you look better.. or really like the way you look, you feel good, and when you feel good, you won't be depressed.. :)
You can totally do this!
2007-02-06 00:53:44 · answer #2 · answered by HA! HA! HA! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't know what your question is, but if you stay with someone who slaps you and is very controlling, nothing but unhappiness, danger, and disaster awaits you if you marry this girl. I think you already know what you need to do. Get rid of the girl NOW!
2007-02-06 00:53:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hurt my husband all the time and i don't consider myself abusive. i have a little streak in me that forces me to do things that hurt him. like bite, pinch, punch... i even stabbed him with a fork one time. it all boils down to what you feel you can and can't put up with in a relationship. you need to go through these things and analyze. and then again, if you're second guessing the strength of your relationship, is it the kind of relationship you want to devote the rest of your life to?
2007-02-06 01:00:30 · answer #4 · answered by Beth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not going to stop,its going to get worst cuz i'm like that.i wanna know where my husband is and everything that hes doing.part of it can be jealousy,and the other big part is trust.well i don't hit my hubby,i will smash things up.cuz if i hit him i know he'll hit back so i don't.but honestly yes it will get more abusive,and it is really hard to control.i wish u luck,take care.
2007-02-06 00:57:43 · answer #5 · answered by lovegirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Slap the woman back, make her understand that a woman has her place in life! If she does it again again shhot her and move to mexico.
2007-02-06 00:58:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would get out now and dump her before this happens again. Move on with your life without her and you will be better for it.
2007-02-06 00:52:41 · answer #7 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drop her like a hot potato !
You are not the guy who should be "taming the shrew"
2007-02-06 00:55:16 · answer #8 · answered by astrospeech@gmail.com 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave her, abusive is a circle ... and it will just keep on coming back ..
2007-02-06 02:04:17 · answer #9 · answered by Kiki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think about what your getting into
2007-02-06 00:53:20 · answer #10 · answered by marnan97 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋