Well...I dunno what's really going on with my friends...
There's 9 people in my group of friends, and I'm only close with really 5 or 6 of them...but anyways. I always see them laughing together and talking, but when I try to join the conversation, they ignore me, or just not really care or notice...I don't know if it's something I did, or if I just don't fit in anymore...And I don't know if it's because of this one girl in the group who hates me, and who I've caught multiple times trying to talk people out of being my friend. I'm so confused...I cry about this at least twice a week, and I'm sick of it. I try to be as nice as possible, and usually am. I fit in with them a year ago, but now....it's different. And I'm trying to like stuff they like just to fit in...but I can't. Can anyone please give me advice? I'm so lost...and I can't think of any solution but to leave my friends, who I really like. Please....
2007-02-05 16:25:20 · 3 answers · asked by tayuyasdirge 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Listen sweetie, you can't call them your friends
if they ignore you when you try to join them.
'TRUE' friends don't treat you like that!!
It sounds to me as though you have done what
'so many' other young girls do. You've 'tried' to be something you're not!! What I mean is this,
when you have to 'pretend' you like something just to fit in, it's obvious it will 'never' work!!
When a person pretends things it 'always causes misery and heartche.
You have tried to be someone, and do/say things that isn't you! And by doing so you have
created a depressing situation for yourself.
You 'MUST' decide if your happiness is worth all
this pretence, especially when you are being so
'rudely and meanly' treated.
I assure you dearie, these girls are 'NOT' worth
you friendship. You deserve 'true' friends who will treat you with respect, and 'really' care about you.
I'm a grandma, and have seen it all, and know you
need to ignore them and make 'new' friends!!
Be good to 'yourself' and be 'happy'!!
Make new friends!!!!
2007-02-05 16:40:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Always Always stay true to who you are and try and not let others control you by making you choose to like things just because they do, maybe a Higher power is working out something that will allow you to start up your own group of truthful caring friends instead of feeling unliked or unnoticed. Give it a try it only can hurt less not more right!!
2007-02-06 00:35:58 · answer #2 · answered by wrxstiunder5sec 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kids are so gullable and will believe any rumers; which sounds like they're hearing. If people, or so called friends, are so two-faced like that, I don't think I'd want to be bothered with them. You don't need that aggravation.
2007-02-06 00:36:20 · answer #3 · answered by Nancy D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋