2007-02-05 16:23:57 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Seek counseling and pray together. I am not sure why you would want to leave him because of that unless there are other things going on. There should be a mutual respect between the two of you. He should not do things that you don't like and you should not do things that he doesn't like.
2007-02-09 16:15:19 · answer #1 · answered by Moni B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does this lashing out involve violence? It might be that he holds the stuff in for so long or he figures that's the only way you'll listen. Either way it's not right, but unless he is violent I would say it's nothing a little counceling on how to control your anger and how to communicate wouldn't help.
2007-02-05 16:29:42 · answer #2 · answered by Tasha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good question by the previous respondents. What do you mean by lash out? Does he get mad and yell? Perhaps send you away? Is it physical?
What do you mean by sometimes? Once a week? Every day? Once a month?
I'm a good man and I sometimes snap or bark at my wife after a particularly stressful day. No, its nothing to be proud of but I'm human? And guess what, ditto for her too.
We need some perspective here....
2007-02-05 16:38:59 · answer #3 · answered by jw 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is he lashing out?
If he's just irrational most of the time, yelling
etc, then of course you should leave..
Why would you want your kids to grow up in that 'hell hole'!! only to mess them up too!!
I lived like that for seven years with my Ex,
and also had two kids. I finally came to my
senses after realizing I hadn't done 'anything'
to warrant his behavior toward me, so I left.
I filed for devorce and have 'never' looked back since. NOW WE (the kids and me) are all happier..
Men like that 'never' want to go to counceling,
or get any kind of input from others..
He could get to the point of actually 'hitting' you.
Mine did, thats when I left!!
I went to counceling myself and found out from one of his family members that his treatment stemmed from a resentment
toward women in general, that he had been abused (yelling and hitting) by his mom.
So maybe your guy has similar problems.
2007-02-05 17:03:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he lashes out he is upset about something that is going on in his life, not really about u. he can't handle life, and gets upset and takes it out on u. if he won't go to therapy with u, he isn't really willing to accept responsibility for his actions, sometimes it is best to get away from a person like this, the kids will suffer much worse having to see all this daily than they would being away from it. we teach people how to treat us by accepting the way they treat us. we shouldn't accept this kind of treatment from anyone if they are hurting us we need to leave that person.
2007-02-05 23:45:47 · answer #5 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you mean he lashes out at you? Is he hitting you? If so get out now and take the kids! If he is not abusing you however then seek help and counseling for you and for your marriage.
2007-02-05 16:43:08 · answer #6 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What does he do?Does he abuse you? If he does I say get out.
2007-02-05 16:26:47 · answer #7 · answered by mamabear 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋