If a guy and a girl are like, making love, and they do everything together, except when it comes time for actual intercourse, he goes limp. Every time. Whats up?
P.S. This is not about me and my man!
2007-02-05 16:21:03 · 16 answers · asked by Ade 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
possibly could be nerves.........or he could be gay
2007-02-05 16:26:40 · answer #1 · answered by Angie 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How is his health? Seriously. Is he a diabetic? Have you heard the commercials about ed for diabetics and men with high blood pressure? I request that this man see his dr.-the sooner the better. It could be he is nervous-or something is wrong physically-like an illness or something along those lines. The dr. can answer any questions/concerns the man has on this topic. Please---do not even consider viagra or anything like that without his seeing his doctor first-to see if the dr. thinks it would be ok or not. The side effects from such a drug can cause serious problems if he is not careful, getting dr. ok first. Take care.
2007-02-06 00:28:23 · answer #2 · answered by SAK 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depending on your age, it could be ED (erectile disfunction). They have pills for it, and as you get older, it can be very common among men.
However, if the person is relatively young, he may have had a bad experience with actual intercourse that causes him to be worried or lose confidence, and therefore, loses his erection. Sometimes the best way around this is just to try and talk about it in a non-threating, open conversation manner.
It may be something serious, or something he is ashamed of. The biggest thing is to be accomodating and understanding, and be professional about the situation. Things should turn around in time.
2007-02-06 00:25:32 · answer #3 · answered by u2thunder 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i guess i could try and answer that question, my husband and i have been married 10 years and he has problems i've done everything possible still nothing i even guestioned was it me.
but nope not me , but little do i no was that he had a medical problem, that has stop him from performing tell him to get check by the doc. and dont be ashamed to tell them there is help out there. and also i just relized that i love him more than the sex part of it. just holding me and snuggling and kisses makes it all up.so dont worry true love is not abour sex its about love and faith within ourselves . hope i helped.
2007-02-06 00:35:06 · answer #4 · answered by SHIRLEY S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nerves? Scared of getting her pregnant? Or how about is he wearing a condom? Often times those like cut the circulation some on a penis and if they do too much foreplay with the condom on the man doesn't feel enough "down there" to keep it hard.
2007-02-06 00:24:22 · answer #5 · answered by Lil Gal 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, I think it could be a number of things..
self confidence,
conscious-- you know.. that whole virgin thing..
responsibility-- doesn't want a baby
maybe he's just not ready..
maybe he's not in the mood..
I'm not really sure because I'm not a guy, it's only my best guess
2007-02-06 00:25:36 · answer #6 · answered by xxsilentxcriesxx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say he is a virgin and extremely nervous... whoever is with him needs to talk to him and tell him it is ok to not be able to do it like a porn star the first time... just be patient, don't rush it, give it time to become un-limp...
2007-02-06 00:24:48 · answer #7 · answered by j_mang 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is either too nervous or he doesn't want to do it with her. Next would be a medical problem, mayne viagra may help.
2007-02-06 00:24:42 · answer #8 · answered by Nort 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Foreplay is too long and he runs out of steam.
Viagra is needed.
Age problems.
Psychological problems.
Consult a professional.
2007-02-06 00:23:58 · answer #9 · answered by csucdartgirl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He may like u too much that he can't keep things sexual for to long cuz he is nervous about screwing it up.
2007-02-06 00:26:23 · answer #10 · answered by k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like a job for smiling bob
2007-02-06 00:23:33 · answer #11 · answered by Voicekiller 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋