I dont wanna gain muscle, i wanna lose wheight! I need this guy. I need to lose 10lbs in a week- we have a ballromm V.Day dance, & if I dont lose the lbs, he's not gonna dance w/ me or even like me. HEEEEELLLLLPPPP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-02-05 16:17:57 · 18 answers · asked by Eva Lauren 2 in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
do the Master cleanse ...........Then run and run and run.....running burns fat the fastest.................makes you lean...........!!!!and strong...............!!!!
2007-02-05 16:26:05 · answer #1 · answered by sage 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Well you are not going to lose weight that fast AND you don't really need THAT guy as bad as you think.... Besides, why would you want ANY-thing to do with such an ego-minded guy that is only worried about your weight?????
But in the mean time, you can buy undergarments to help your shape look better right away!!!! There are tons of comfortable shapers out there! Buy your dress and go try on undergarments!
Good luck and be more secure and don't let a guy run your universe! Trust me, a guy like that will be gone soon no matter what you look like. He is insecure and egotistical and will never be happy and will end up ALONE someday with no woman!
2007-02-05 16:27:17 · answer #2 · answered by LJ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to grow up. For one thing, needing to lose ten pounds doesn't qualify you as fat at all. Tell that to the women that need to lose 50lbs. and you'd end up b*tch slapped. Second, if a boy isn't going to like you because you're overweight, especially by only ten pounds, then he's a complete immature idiot who isn't worthy of your attention in the first place. Third, there is no healthy way to lose 10lbs. in a week. Accept that you're going to to go to the dance looking like you do and get over it. It's just a school dance, and I'm sure you'll look fine.
2007-02-05 16:31:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
oh come on girl... the only way to lose that much weight in one week would be very very un healthy and could lead to death! you just need to take it slow even a couple of pounds will make adiffernce some times...just eat smaller portions all week and do a little exercising you could lose maybe 2 to 3 pounds and will feel much better. if he wont dance with you..who cares find some one else that will.!! sounds like a loser to me..take care.
2007-02-05 16:28:30 · answer #4 · answered by mary c 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Girl, don't do it! You can't lose 10 lbs. in a week, and if you did, you'd probably pass out before you even go to the dance. This guy is totally not worth your time and certainly not worth the effort of dropping 10 lbs. Learn to love yourself and get into a cardio routine when you're ready.
2007-02-05 16:25:34 · answer #5 · answered by Heidi 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Honestly, if 10 lbs. is the difference between getting the little shallow loser to dance with you and not, you don't need him anyway. Find someone to dance with who likes you for you.
As for the weight, if you truly are overweight, and I'm thinking you aren't if you're only worried about 10 lbs - just eat right, don't overeat and exercise more and it will come off...in a healthy way.
You need to look in the mirror and appreciate who you see and to hell with what that little punk thinks.
2007-02-05 16:23:23 · answer #6 · answered by Someday Soon 2 · 6⤊ 0⤋
I agree with everyone who has said - if this guy is only going to like you because of how much you weigh, he's not worth your time. Trust me on this one. Lose weight for yourself, not for anyone else, or you'll make yourself miserable. It already sounds like you're stressed out.
How tall are you - how much do you weigh? What size pants do you wear? How old are you? All these things are important to consider. I'm a petite, 5'3", almost 18, and have no idea how much I weigh. But I do a lot of walking, so that's built up my leg muscles - and muscles weigh more than fat. And I can be a 14 in one pair of pants, and a 9 in another - it depends on the cut, who made it, etc.
I see too much of girls saying they're too skinny, when they're absolutely gorgeous. It's a shame that society allows us to think that if we don't look like anorexic stick-girls, we're fat. I have been called fat my entire life, because I have a small waist with a moderate bust and hips. When I was a girl with baby fat, it was in my thighs and abdomen - therefore, I was fat.
I have not found a guy that likes me for who I am, and maybe I'll never find one. But I know that any guy I feel I have to be a certain weight for - and I've met them - are assholes. I don't mean that I'm going to be a heavy (I hate the word fat) slob, but I take care of myself. Everyone has their own shape and weight - we're not all alike. Some people are naturally skinny, others rounder in some areas.
But. Someone who is going to appreciate you only for your looks is not worth your time. I'm sure you're thinking "but I want to look good for him!" or "he likes skinny girls!" or something like that. There's no problem with wanting to look good for a guy. But there is a problem when you feel you have to change yourself for him. It's not healthy. Again, I'm talking from experiance. I've had a lot of heartache because of it. My friend, who is very skinny, has had boyfriends, while I can't get dates for dances. But I've learned that, in the long run, it's better for you. Learn to appreciate yourself, and the qualities you have. I have round hips, but I can look at myself and say "Well, my legs are good" or something like that. Be positive!
And PLEASE, don't try to change because you want a guy to like you. If he won't like you because of how you look (I'm not sure how many times I've said this to people), HE ISN'T WORTH IT. Trust me on this! I speak from the heart.
I hope you at least consider what I've said, even if you don't agree with it.
2007-02-05 16:41:23 · answer #7 · answered by FUBARChick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uhhh.... 10 pounds... is going to make him not want to dance with you?
that sort of insecurity might do it...
you really need to learn more about your body... muscle burns fat... the more muscle you have, the more fat you burn... so you want more muscle to burn more fat. as long as you don't take steroids or lift enormous amounts of weight, you will not get that massive bulk you are worried about. in fact, having muscle tone is what gives those gorgeous women the bodies we all want!!!
i suggest you also learn about nutrition as well as exercising.
the next suggestion would be to go talk to your guidance counselor about your body image. you will be surprised at how cool they can be and also how you really need to work on loving who you are.
yes, it is cheesy, but you really do need to learn to love yourself before you love someone else. it makes life a whole lot easier.
2007-02-05 16:30:14 · answer #8 · answered by christy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If some guy isn't going to like you because you didn't lose 10 pounds, he's not worth a second of your time.
2007-02-05 16:21:00 · answer #9 · answered by Steph [♥] 4 · 5⤊ 0⤋
simply by fact's what you're feeding techniques on your techniques, questioning of being fat, exchange your techniques and think of skinny, then your physique will persist with the advice of your questioning head.
2016-09-28 11:50:45 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"I need this guy" - you dont NEED any guy. Especially not one who wouldnt like you just the way you are. Lose the insecurity, put on your best smile and get on with it!
2007-02-05 20:03:46 · answer #11 · answered by screamingflower34 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋