well i have this really close friend, and she and i used to like this guy. but then ignored me and i was hurt but i got fully over it and now that he is back living at my house we are really good friends and talk about a lot of stuff. my friend though still loves him, now more than ever. this would be okay, but i have been talking with him and he really doesnt seem to like her at all. she talked to him about it and he said he just wanted a good friendship, but she keeps taking anything he does too far. eg. giving a complement or something. he kinda teases her around her back to everyone else and he doesnt even like being around her now. trying to talk to her is like torture, especially when im over him now. she keeps saying i might be jealous of her, but in fact im not, me n him r closer than ever now. but.. what am i supposed to do with this whole thing, i dont want her to get hurt, but is that the only way? .....
2007-02-05 16:13:59 · 2 answers · asked by Nat L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
unfortunately in this case it does seem to be the only way. She is too in to him to listen to things you say, or care, so she is going to have to be hurt, & the only thing that you can do is be there for her when she thinks that her life is coming apart. Just reassure her that this isn't the only time that she is going to be in love, & that htere is someone out ther efor her.
2007-02-05 16:23:45 · answer #1 · answered by sis_jk27 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to leave it along. if he does not like her then he will
tell her himself. dont get involved in this. if she is your friend then
be there for her but dont say anything because she might feel
that you are jealous of her and wont believe that he would
say that. so to keep the peace and your friend ship stay
quiet.
2007-02-06 00:21:53 · answer #2 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋