2007-02-05 16:05:01 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Is this a joke?
1) If you have sex, you are right to have protected sex.
2) If you think you are mature enough to have sex, you should be mature enough to go buy your own condoms. If you are not comfortable buying them yourself, you should seriously reconsider whether you are truly mature enough to be having sex in the first place. And if you don't have the money for them, then go to Planned Parenthood, where you can obtain condoms for free.
3) I do think it's a good idea to discuss your decision to become sexually active with your parents. They will likely have some concerns they will want to share with you. Please listen to their concerns with the understanding that they have life experience to impart to you.
2007-02-05 16:22:33 · answer #1 · answered by artemisaodc1 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you're thinking of having sex you also need to be mature enough to take responsibility for making the choice. If you can't do this then you shouldn't be having sex.
People buy condoms all the time and buying them is no big deal..trust me. When you're waiting in line and feeling nervous just remember that the cashier could care less. My guy friends would tell you that they're just happy to be buying them for a reason. You'll be fine..smile and feel great that you're protecting yourself and being responsible!
2007-02-06 00:17:32 · answer #2 · answered by R! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as a parent my advise to my children and to you is: Yes i would,
This is what I would say, I have done nothing to this point but for safety precautions, would you please buy me some condoms just in case. Im sure they will, instead of having to hear, I am pregnant or I have just gotten someone pregnant, or worse like HIV, or some STD. Most parents are more understanding than most children think. Its better safe than sorry, becasue in this day in age, some things dont go away or just wash off with soap and water.
2007-02-06 00:11:46 · answer #3 · answered by DITZ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You get to put your self between these two facts in order to find whether you have the right to ask or not:Are you buying that tool(condoms)to perform a act of fornication thereby you are going to protect you and your partner from all 21 STDs and from getting prignant before marriage.
Or for the purpose of adultery.
Or for the purpose of performing the lawful sex that would put you out of trouble.
2007-02-06 00:23:51 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you cannot buy your own condoms than you shouldn't be doing the deed. But if are going to have sex than ya go ahead and ask your parents.
2007-02-06 00:09:21 · answer #5 · answered by betty_htch 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no if your ready for sex u can buy them yourself. if you cant do that your not mature enough to have sex or look after a child if it led to that. buying condoms is a hard task for the first time but the pharmisist see's it all the time they dont care and at least you want to be safe
2007-02-06 00:11:12 · answer #6 · answered by frank 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Anyone can buy condoms. If you're embarrassed, though, that sounds like a sensible solution.
2007-02-06 00:09:19 · answer #7 · answered by adanarama 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage first kiddo. You're too young to be havin sex, not to mention, first time on a girl, is HARSH. The Heimin or "cherry" will tear, and not easily, it'll hurt, and it'll bleed. And depending on how wide the cervix is, she could cry in pain. Then you have to wait at least a week for her to heal. So, no you shouldn't, because you're too young to be having sex kiddo. Those late night visits to the bathroom are good enough til you get married okay?
2007-02-06 06:02:10 · answer #8 · answered by Rin 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No buy your own condoms
2007-02-06 01:41:21 · answer #9 · answered by lady26 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Better than buying pampers, formula, and gerber's baby food. It is very wise to protect yourself if you are going to be treading in dangerous waters.
2007-02-06 00:59:22 · answer #10 · answered by Bu Tran 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋